Episode 168

Botox. Dating. Social Media. with Amanda Swiss

Published on: 14th May, 2025

In this episode of the Whiskey and Wisdom podcast, hosts Tyler and Chris welcome Amanda Swiss, a physician assistant specializing in aesthetics. The conversation flows from light-hearted icebreakers to deeper discussions about Amanda's career path, her passion for aesthetics, and the intricacies of procedures like Botox and fillers. They also touch on Amanda's personal journey from Massachusetts to Wilmington, her experiences in Phoenix, and the differences between urban life in the desert and coastal living. The episode is filled with insights into the aesthetics industry and personal anecdotes that make for an entertaining and informative listen. In this engaging conversation, the hosts explore various themes ranging from nostalgic college memories to the evolving landscape of wedding videography and singles events. They discuss the joy of capturing behind-the-scenes moments at weddings, the rise of content creators, and the challenges of dating in a beach town. The conversation also delves into the world of golf, sharing personal experiences and insights about major courses and the importance of family bonding through the sport. In this engaging conversation, the hosts explore a variety of topics ranging from golfing experiences and wedding photography to skincare and aesthetic procedures. They share personal anecdotes about their adventures in golf, discuss the importance of fashion at weddings, and delve into the world of skincare, particularly for men. The conversation also touches on the nuances of Botox and Dysport, reflections on life goals, and the significance of social media presence in today's world.

Chapters


00:00 Introduction and Icebreakers

03:07 Exploring Careers and Passions

06:09 Aesthetics and the Role of a Physician Assistant

08:58 Understanding Aesthetic Procedures

12:07 Personal Journey and Relocation

15:05 Reflections on Phoenix and Wilmington

18:00 The Rise of Content Creators in Weddings

22:15 Creating Meaningful Connections

26:05 The Challenge of Playing at Pebble Beach

29:00 Exploring Local Golf Options

30:27 Innovative Ideas for Social Events

31:03 The Appeal of Professional Golfers

32:48 Golfing Adventures and Misadventures

34:20 Topgolf and Golfing Experiences

35:42 Wedding Photography Insights

36:10 Fashion at Weddings: Apple Watches and Attire

40:14 Skincare and Aesthetic Procedures for Men

42:47 Understanding Botox and Dysport

46:01 Reflections on Success and Life Goals

47:05 Connecting with the Audience: Social Media Presence

Transcript
Boys:

welcome back to the Whiskey and Wisdom podcast.

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Everybody's, this is your co-host,

Tyler, y'all, and today I'm with Chris

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Lum and our special guest today is

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Amanda: Amanda Swiss.

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Boys: Thank you so much

for coming on today.

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Amanda: Thank you for having me.

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I'm excited.

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Boys (2): Absolutely.

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Sorry.

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Do you wear like Swiss

like case Swiss shoes?

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Amanda: No, I don't.

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Boys (2): I'm like you.

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It's perfect branding.

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I

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Amanda: know, I agree.

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I should, I should.

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Boys (2): You should

have at least one pair.

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Amanda: Yeah.

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Alright, I'll put that on the list.

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Okay.

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Mm-hmm.

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We start starting off on the

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Boys (2): weird part also.

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No, it could have been worse because

when she said Amanda Swiss, my brain

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automatically said Swiss beats.

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Ah, I've

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Amanda: heard that one before too.

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Mm-hmm.

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I figured you would at

least heard that one.

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Mm-hmm.

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Yep.

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Boys (2): But before we go too

crazy into your life story,

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what are we sipping on, Tyler?

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I'm just, he doesn't even know.

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So we have this wilderness trail.

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Rye.

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It is.

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And it's a settler select.

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Mm-hmm.

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Unfortunately it's a cast

strength, so for you that means

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it's gonna be a little spicy.

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Amanda: Alright.

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Boys (2): In a different way.

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It's 51 point hot 5%.

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So that's 1 0 3 proof.

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Boys: Yeah.

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Wait, no, what'd you say?

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51.5.

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Okay.

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Yeah.

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Boys (2): Yeah.

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I

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Boys: can

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Boys (2): do

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Boys: math

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Boys (2): sometimes.

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Boys: Okay.

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Good job.

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Amanda: We'll see how this goes.

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Boys (2): Yeah.

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One of my friends found us 'cause

he lives like in Virginia area.

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Mm-hmm.

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They get different stuff.

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So we got this and I was like,

oh, this actually looks good.

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It's about a 1 36 of 1 9 5.

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Amanda: The cover looks cool.

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Boys (2): Yeah, that's, yeah.

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Very vintage looking.

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Boys: It's a five year, so that's good.

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Is it set down there on the side of it?

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Okay.

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Boys (2): But cheers.

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Cheers.

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Check it out here.

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I'll swing out wide so you

can at least get a real cheer.

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Amanda: I gotta pass it on.

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Oh,

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Boys: that's actually pretty hot.

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Amanda: Yeah, that was aggressive.

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I did it though.

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Yeah, I did it.

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I can't really do shots anymore, so.

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Starting out strong.

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Boys: Yeah.

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Sorry.

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Wow.

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I was joking about taking a shot.

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Like we sip on, there we go.

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I took the whole thing, so, whoa.

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That's hot.

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So like I said, it's a one of three proof,

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Boys (2): so whiskey pretty

much, most like Tito's and stuff

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is gonna be under 80 proof.

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Amanda: Mm-hmm.

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Right.

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Boys (2): This is delicious.

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But their mash bill, 56% rye.

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It's actually making my eyes water.

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Boys: That hasn't happened in a long time.

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Boys (2): 56% rye, 33% corn.

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They throw 11% of malted barley.

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I mean, it has a really

good flavor on there.

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Yeah, it was the first sip

that like was super hot.

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Well, the taste is clove white pepper.

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Amanda: And

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Boys (2): then got that.

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Got that.

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Yep.

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And then I, I can taste this part.

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Spearmint, candied flowers

and some Earl Gray tea.

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Amanda: I'm getting all of those.

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Mm-hmm.

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Yeah.

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Boys (2): Well, the spear, you

can feel that like minty piece.

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Oh, dang.

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They won a bunch of awards too.

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Oh, wow.

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But yeah, shout out Aaron.

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This thing is delicious.

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We've been drinking some

really weak stuff all day, so.

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Oh, I had to wake him up a little bit.

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Thanks.

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We waited for you.

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I kind of needed a shot

though, to like calm down, so

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Amanda: it's fine.

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Just relax.

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It's good.

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We're good?

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Yeah.

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Now I'm good.

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You

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Boys (2): can go to

ECU U for a little bit.

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You should know how to take some in

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Amanda: Arizona State, so,

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Boys: yeah, true.

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Yes.

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Boys (2): What are those?

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The sun devils?

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Amanda: Yes.

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Boys: Mm-hmm.

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Amanda: Okay.

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Mm-hmm.

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Boys (2): The only reason I know that

is because I was applying for App State.

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Yes.

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And it was, you

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Amanda: can't get those mixed up.

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Boys (2): Well, I kept, I was type in,

this is back before Google was Google.

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Mm-hmm.

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But I would like search for ASU A u.

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Mm-hmm.

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And I'm like, this is not a SU.

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Can't you figure out my location?

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Mm-hmm.

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And tell you I want Yeah.

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I'm not trying to go there.

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Yeah.

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can't say I went to a SU Yeah.

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I need to say Arizona State here.

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Yeah.

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Yes.

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Boys (2): Well, you true.

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I say App State now.

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Amanda: Mm-hmm.

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Boys (2): no, I'm jumping way far ahead.

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Amanda: Mm-hmm.

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Boys (2): Let's go back to the beginning.

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Tell us about yourself.

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Amanda: Alright, so my full-time

job, I'm a physician assistant

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at Salt Aesthetics Bar.

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Okay.

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We have a location here in Wilmington off

of der, and then we have one in Hamstead.

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So we do like Botox, filler lasers,

weight loss, facials, stuff like that.

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It's a lot of fun.

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Okay, nice.

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And then I just started a

content creation business.

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I mainly do weddings.

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I started that in the fall.

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Mm, mm-hmm.

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So I just take photos and videos

throughout the day and give everything

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to the bride and groom within 24 hours.

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So that's a lot of fun.

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Boys: Oh, wow.

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That's awesome.

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Amanda: And then my friend and I also

started doing Wilmington singles events a

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couple months ago, so that's a lot of fun.

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So I'm very busy.

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Boys (2): Which part?

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Being single or hosting the events?

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Amanda: Oh, just hosting

the events is fun.

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Yes.

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Not actually all of the, actually

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Boys (2): some people like it, so

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Amanda: I mean, yeah.

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I enjoy it.

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It's fine.

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Hmm.

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We can get to that,

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Boys: but we were just talking and that

could be a whole podcast within itself.

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Yes.

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Amanda: I joke that I should start my own

podcast, but I don't think I have time.

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So

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Boys (2): you.

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Wanna know something.

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Amanda: What?

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Boys (2): You can come to Kent Street

Studio and actually do your own podcast.

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Amanda: Don't tell me

that I don't have time.

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I will.

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You do.

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I will figure it out.

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Boys (2): Because what'll happen,

you come in, you sit down mm-hmm.

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For 30 minutes or so.

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Mm-hmm.

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Record it and you send the info

over to Tyler or he'll edit it, put

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everything together for all I'm down.

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Amanda: Like, so like you could just make

an entire podcast on Wilmington dating.

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Boys (2): Yes.

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You were the third person

I've heard that from.

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Amanda: I should.

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Well now I'm gonna do it.

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Boys (2): I was gonna be like,

and they're all blonde, but no,

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they're all different hair colors.

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Amanda: Naturally?

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Dark brown.

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the summer or you just stay blonde?

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I just,

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Amanda: I stay blonde.

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Boys (2): Just curious.

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Amanda: Mm-hmm.

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Boys (2): This is, I'm

just having a fun podcast.

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Yeah, no, I like, I love this.

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This is fine.

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It's the last podcast of the day.

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We've been drinking all day.

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Yes.

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It's all good.

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I can't promise where it's gonna go.

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Woo.

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Amanda: Yes.

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Boys (2): For many people,

including myself, what.

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What is it?

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Physician assistant?

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You're not.

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No.

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Amanda: you're not quite a doctor.

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PA school was, it's

usually two to three years.

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EC was like 27 months.

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So you can kind of do the

majority of what a doctor can do.

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You can prescribe, you

know, diagnose people.

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You just need to have like a supervising

physician above you on your license.

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Boys (2): Got you.

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Amanda: I do, yeah.

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I love it.

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I love aesthetics.

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So I don't think I could,

you know, work in a hospital.

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So why'd you do PA and not go the full MD?

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Amanda: I always wanted to go into

healthcare, but I didn't wanna be a

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nurse and I also didn't wanna like go

to med school and residency and just

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kind of have that responsibility.

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So it was kind of a good, like InBetween

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Boys (2): interesting.

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Amanda: Mm-hmm.

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My friend, when I was at ECU,

she was on that track to be a pa.

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I'm pretty sure she ended up at

Virginia Tech for her PA school.

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In Greenville for six and a half years.

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Boys: What made you wanna

go the aesthetics route?

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Amanda: So I wanted to stay in

Wilmington when I graduated.

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And it was actually the

only thing I could find.

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And that was back in 2019, kind

of before it really took off.

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And they completely trained me on the job.

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'cause you don't learn that

stuff in PA school, right?

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And I liked it.

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And then I actually did orthopedic

surgery for a little while.

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And then covid happened and I got an

opportunity to go back to aesthetics

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and I was like, I'm out of the hospital.

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And then I've just stuck with that, so.

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Boys (2): So I know a

little bit about aesthetics.

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Don't ask why, but in reality.

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Could you explain to the guys and the

gals and the GULs who don't know mm-hmm.

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Like what do you do?

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Like what's Botox?

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What's filler like the base goal?

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Amanda: sure.

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So Botox, there's

different kinds of toxins.

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There's Botox dys for Xeo and gbo.

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They go into the muscle.

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They basically help

prevent wrinkles mm-hmm.

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From forming.

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And then filler adds volume, so

that's like a hyaluronic acid gel.

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So you can put that in like your

cheeks or your lips or your chin.

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Stuff like that.

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So why would someone want to do that?

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Amanda: To make themselves

feel better about themselves?

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What's that?

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It, the goal is not to like,

make you like look weird.

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The goal is to make you look

refreshed, kind of, you know, add

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volume back where you've lost volume.

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refreshed and less tired and

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Boys: Okay.

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Amanda: Just like, make you

feel better about yourself.

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So, yeah.

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Boys: You're talking to guys, so

you're gonna have to start like

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Boys (2): level with us.

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Basics.

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It's very interesting because a lot of

people like when they hear these, these

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things, they're like, oh, well someone

got Botox or someone got filler typically.

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It's literally right after they left

the Doctor Uhhuh or wherever they went.

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swollen and it hasn't like settled at all.

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Amanda: Yeah.

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You gotta wait like two weeks

to, for the final results.

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to tell that you got anything done.

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So if you look like you

got something done, like

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You overdid it.

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Like right here.

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Get the, see, there's a lot

of things I need to fix.

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You don't have to, we're

just pointing out me.

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Amanda: everyone can do Botox.

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My, my lips.

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Amanda: You're good.

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Like here?

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the cro, like the under eyes, under eyes

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You don't wanna necessarily

add filler there.

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You need to be a good candidate

for under eye filler, or

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else you get can look puffy.

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Usually it's like PRP,

platelet rich plasma.

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We draw your blood, spin

it down, we inject that.

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your eyes, we don't wanna

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add more filler there either.

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Because that's gonna add more

volume and make it puffier.

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So that's act, that's

actually usually surgery.

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So how interesting Under eyes are tricky.

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eyebrows too, or No.

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Amanda: Like microblading?

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All the things.

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Jumping all around.

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Amanda: My favorite thing

to do is lip filler.

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Boys: Okay.

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Amanda: Mm-hmm.

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See, it's fun.

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It's instant gratification.

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probably one of the things

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that you can like Yeah, so like

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Amanda: Botox, like all the tox

is they take two weeks to kick in.

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So as long as everything's good,

I don't usually see them back.

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weeks to kind of calm down.

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Amanda: But yeah, lip filler's fun.

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Amanda: I do.

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I actually haven't gotten

any in like a year.

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Some people go through

it really quickly, but.

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Boys: Oh, 'cause your body

breaks it down or whatnot.

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metabolism and stuff too?

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Boys (2): See,

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Boys: I'm just pointing out she

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Boys (2): guys, girls,

everyone, she's got great lips.

466

:

Thank you.

467

:

Amanda: Yeah, thanks.

468

:

I appreciate that.

469

:

Boys (2): Why I bring Chris on here?

470

:

So you got into this

field, you're loving it.

471

:

Mm-hmm.

472

:

But prior to that.

473

:

How'd you get to Wilmington?

474

:

Like you weren't, you went to

475

:

Amanda: Yeah, so I was born

in Massachusetts, actually.

476

:

My parents are from there.

477

:

Boys (2): This has been

a whole northeast, all

478

:

Amanda: over the place.

479

:

Yes.

480

:

We,

481

:

Boys (2): for a month I guess.

482

:

Oh, really?

483

:

Boys: Like brother guess every everyone

else has been on from New York.

484

:

We all end up here.

485

:

Massachusetts, Rhode Island.

486

:

Yeah.

487

:

Amanda: And then when I was two, three

years old we actually moved to Phoenix.

488

:

Boys: Okay.

489

:

Amanda: And then I grew up there, went

to Arizona State, and then my dad got

490

:

a new job here when I graduated and.

491

:

You need to get like patient

care hours before PA school.

492

:

Mm-hmm.

493

:

So I knew I was gonna live at

home, so I ended up moving here

494

:

with my parents or my family.

495

:

My brother ended up at UNCW.

496

:

My sister was still in high school.

497

:

Loved it.

498

:

I'd never seen Wilmington

before I moved here.

499

:

Yeah.

500

:

And love it here.

501

:

And my parents are still

here and my sister's here.

502

:

My brother's in Cary, like

right outside of Raleigh.

503

:

Okay.

504

:

So we've all stayed, which is awesome.

505

:

Nice.

506

:

Mm-hmm.

507

:

Boys (2): So you don't have

to fly back to Arizona?

508

:

Amanda: No, I go back to see

friends usually like once a year.

509

:

Boys (2): Okay.

510

:

Mm-hmm.

511

:

Yeah.

512

:

One of my best friends,

she moved to Arizona.

513

:

For work or for her husband's work.

514

:

Mm-hmm.

515

:

And she, it's totally different.

516

:

Amanda: It is, yeah.

517

:

Boys (2): It's weird too.

518

:

'cause like I know Phoenix is a big

city 'cause they got a basketball

519

:

team, so you gotta be a big city.

520

:

Yeah.

521

:

But true.

522

:

It is not what I expected.

523

:

Amanda: What do you mean?

524

:

Boys (2): I don't know.

525

:

I just like really like

526

:

Amanda: spread out.

527

:

Like it's spread out.

528

:

It's in the, the desert.

529

:

Yes.

530

:

Like

531

:

Boys (2): city's in a desert.

532

:

To me, just like that

533

:

Boys: was the biggest surprise when

I went just this last year too.

534

:

Mm-hmm.

535

:

Is how spread out, like how big a

city it is, but how spread out it

536

:

is, and then it's literally just like

plopped in the middle of the desert.

537

:

Mm-hmm.

538

:

Which is also crazy.

539

:

Mm-hmm.

540

:

Yeah.

541

:

Amanda: It's only here where

like Wilmington, like Raleigh

542

:

is like two hours away.

543

:

Like everything's kind of

all together, but Right.

544

:

Also spread out.

545

:

Yeah.

546

:

Yeah,

547

:

Boys (2): yeah.

548

:

I feel like you, it's like Texas.

549

:

Technically you can drive across

Dallas and you're still in

550

:

Dallas an hour and a half later.

551

:

Yes.

552

:

Amanda: Yeah, I was gonna say

we, I was like on one end of

553

:

Phoenix and we would drive an hour

and to get to downtown Phoenix.

554

:

Yeah, yeah.

555

:

Mm-hmm.

556

:

Boys (2): Those Uber rides

must have been ridiculous.

557

:

Amanda: Uber was not a thing yet.

558

:

That was like the, the end

of college for me, I think.

559

:

Oh, okay.

560

:

Yeah.

561

:

Boys (2): I'm like, you don't seem

old enough for that to be the end.

562

:

Thank you, Botox.

563

:

My brain is, wait,

564

:

Amanda: what?

565

:

I'm 33.

566

:

Boys: Well, I guess so.

567

:

Yeah.

568

:

If you do the math makes sense.

569

:

Oh

570

:

Amanda: yeah, like, like

senior year of college was when

571

:

Uber started being a thing.

572

:

Okay.

573

:

Ish.

574

:

Yeah.

575

:

Boys (2): Did you at least take a taxi?

576

:

Amanda: Yeah, we would take taxis.

577

:

Okay.

578

:

Okay.

579

:

That's, we did back in the day

down old, we come outta the bar

580

:

and they'd be waiting there.

581

:

My gosh.

582

:

Or, or we would, would walk.

583

:

Boys: Chris is older than all

of us and he's pretending like

584

:

he hasn't heard of a taxi.

585

:

No.

586

:

No.

587

:

Boys (2): Really?

588

:

Mr.

589

:

I gotta sit on Yellow pages.

590

:

Come on now.

591

:

Aw, yellow pages.

592

:

Ah, sorry.

593

:

We're just throwing jokes left and right.

594

:

Amanda: No, I love it.

595

:

Boys (2): I feel like, 'cause

I jump all around today.

596

:

Mm-hmm.

597

:

I legit am like clicking,

I saw a post of yours.

598

:

Oh gosh.

599

:

And I was like.

600

:

I, that is the best job ever.

601

:

Like to go to a wedding and just record.

602

:

Yeah.

603

:

Uhhuh, get the background stuff.

604

:

Uhhuh, because yeah, I love my

photographer, but they're getting

605

:

Yes, the stills, those things

that I'm requiring them to do.

606

:

Mm-hmm.

607

:

And you're in the background, you're

here that way all the friends can't like,

608

:

Amanda: like all the behind

the scenes stuff and you get it

609

:

basically in like, I did a wedding

yesterday and I had everything

610

:

in there by midnight last night.

611

:

Boys: Oh,

612

:

Amanda: so she already had everything?

613

:

Yeah.

614

:

Boys: Mm-hmm.

615

:

Did you get a drink though?

616

:

No, it's all that stuff that

it makes a lot of sense.

617

:

Like as a bride, you're, you're not

going around with your phone mm-hmm.

618

:

Trying to capture all

the, like, you don't like

619

:

Amanda: assign that to

one of your friends.

620

:

Like you want them to enjoy it.

621

:

Yeah.

622

:

So, mm-hmm.

623

:

Boys (2): So they just hire you.

624

:

Amanda: Mm-hmm.

625

:

Boys (2): See, I'm just pointing out the

thing, so when people hear this, they're

626

:

like, oh, she stays sober the whole time.

627

:

It gets great content for Yes.

628

:

Yes.

629

:

Yeah.

630

:

That's the other thing.

631

:

I'm the hype beast.

632

:

I'm here for you.

633

:

Thank you.

634

:

You appreciate

635

:

Amanda: it.

636

:

Boys (2): So how'd you fall into that?

637

:

Amanda: So I'd actually seeded on TikTok.

638

:

Okay.

639

:

Like months before I started doing it.

640

:

And then I was in my friend's wedding in

October in Portland, and she literally

641

:

picked me up at the airport and I

was like, did you get a videographer?

642

:

And she was like, oh no, I was just

hoping that like you could film

643

:

some stuff and I'm on bridesmaid.

644

:

And I was like, oh, okay.

645

:

And then like I was popping around

the whole day, like with my phone,

646

:

there's tons of like professional

photos of me with my phone, like around.

647

:

And then I was like, this is a lot of fun.

648

:

And I put together like little,

like a recap reel for her.

649

:

And a couple other little fun reels

and I was like, I think this could

650

:

be like fun to do on the side.

651

:

So I literally like came back, made

an LLC and started doing it, so.

652

:

Oh, nice.

653

:

Mm-hmm.

654

:

That's a move.

655

:

Mm-hmm.

656

:

Boys: We have a acquaintance

that does that out in California.

657

:

Oh, cool.

658

:

Taylor, who was doing the video stuff

when we did the Pilates in Soul.

659

:

Boys (2): Mm, okay.

660

:

Mm-hmm.

661

:

Amanda: Yeah, it's like kind

of really starting to catch on.

662

:

Boys: It is.

663

:

Which makes

664

:

Amanda: a lot of sense.

665

:

I mean, like videography is great, like

there's definitely a place for that, but.

666

:

That's expensive.

667

:

And even if you kind of want something,

I definitely recommend still having

668

:

like a professional photographer Yes.

669

:

To have that stuff.

670

:

But if you want more like behind

the scenes little videos throughout

671

:

the day, then content creator

I think so, is a good choice.

672

:

Like a videographer

673

:

Boys (2): to me is like the, I

think it's the big, what all the

674

:

major studios are doing with movies

now is like, Hey, here's the film.

675

:

But we want you to see like how we got

to this point and why you chose this.

676

:

Mm-hmm.

677

:

And whatnot.

678

:

And those are the things that

you don't always get to see.

679

:

Mm-hmm.

680

:

And also,

681

:

Boys: realistically too, like when I look

back at like my wedding pictures that we

682

:

post often, they're from people's phones.

683

:

Yeah.

684

:

Those stuff that we like created

or other friends have created.

685

:

Mm-hmm.

686

:

Because that's what gets

shared on social media.

687

:

Mm-hmm.

688

:

That's those, those are the

memories that get brought back up.

689

:

And then maybe four or five of the

professional, like pictures that we

690

:

decided to put on social media anyway,

are the ones that we still go back to.

691

:

Amanda: Mm-hmm.

692

:

Boys: It's like, and like I have my

693

:

Amanda: whole little like gimbal thing

that like keeps it like still and Oh yeah.

694

:

Boys (2): We need one of those.

695

:

Yeah,

696

:

Amanda: they're really cool.

697

:

Boys (2): Give us the link.

698

:

We'll buy it.

699

:

All right.

700

:

It was on Amazon.

701

:

Nice.

702

:

Amanda: I did my TikTok research.

703

:

I got the good one.

704

:

Boys (2): You didn't just

buy it off the TikTok shop?

705

:

Amanda: No, I don't think it's,

it's probably not on TikTok shop.

706

:

I don't know.

707

:

Maybe you should, but the

nice one is on Amazon.

708

:

Okay.

709

:

Boys (2): Yeah, you could put it on there.

710

:

I'm sure

711

:

Amanda: I could.

712

:

Boys (2): I don't actually

know how TikTok shop works.

713

:

It'll be closed in.

714

:

Like, I don't either.

715

:

I've bought a couple things on

716

:

Amanda: there, but yeah.

717

:

I don't know.

718

:

Yeah, it's kinda like a crap shoot too.

719

:

It's like I, I've tried

to figure out TikTok.

720

:

I, I try my best, but

721

:

Boys (2): it's, it's not for us.

722

:

Amanda: I'm a millennial

of an It's Instagram.

723

:

Boys (2): Yeah, right.

724

:

Exactly.

725

:

That's what we use.

726

:

It could be worse.

727

:

You could be Facebook.

728

:

Amanda: That's true.

729

:

Boys (2): Like I had somebody tag me in

something on Facebook and my boss was

730

:

like, oh, hey, so and so tagged you.

731

:

And I'm like, I don't

have my Facebook password.

732

:

Mm-hmm.

733

:

Like, I have no idea.

734

:

When I will see that bag.

735

:

Amanda: Mm-hmm.

736

:

Boys (2): Yeah.

737

:

Yep.

738

:

But someone, but it's great for those,

the weddings you do, they can post

739

:

it on Facebook for their old folks.

740

:

Exactly, yes.

741

:

Who didn't make it.

742

:

Amanda: Mm-hmm.

743

:

Exactly.

744

:

Boys (2): So do you get to travel for

these weddings or do you mostly do locals?

745

:

I

746

:

Amanda: will travel.

747

:

I haven't had any like

major travel booked.

748

:

I went to Wake Forest

a couple weekends ago.

749

:

Mm-hmm.

750

:

Mm-hmm.

751

:

Mainly just doing them around Wilmington,

especially with like a full-time job.

752

:

Yeah.

753

:

So, mm-hmm.

754

:

Yeah.

755

:

That makes sense.

756

:

Mm-hmm.

757

:

Boys: And since you're not busy enough

doing both of those things mm-hmm.

758

:

You also started the so what's the

official name of, it's called Single

759

:

Amanda: and Social, ILM.

760

:

It's okay.

761

:

Mm-hmm.

762

:

Okay.

763

:

Boys: And so I think you can make the

assumption of how it got started, but

764

:

can you kind of give us the story of Yes.

765

:

Amanda: So another thing that I had

seen online, like on TikTok, was just

766

:

other cities putting on singles events.

767

:

Yeah.

768

:

And dating is rough here.

769

:

I think it's bad everywhere really,

but I think it's especially bad here.

770

:

Yes.

771

:

Wouldn't have known

772

:

Boys (2): that.

773

:

Amanda: I

774

:

never heard that before.

775

:

I don't know if it's like

Beach Town College town.

776

:

Dating apps are the worst.

777

:

Yes.

778

:

So I seen other cities doing it and I

was kind of waiting around for someone

779

:

else to do get it started here and

I was like, I'll just do it myself.

780

:

So I literally posted on like my personal

Instagram story that I was gonna do it.

781

:

And then one of my friends messaged me.

782

:

At the time she was more of

an acquaintance, but now she's

783

:

become a good friend and she

was like, I'll help you out.

784

:

And I don't think she knew

what she was getting into.

785

:

So I was like, all right.

786

:

So we met up and then within

three weeks we had our first

787

:

event and we had 150 people.

788

:

We sold out.

789

:

We did it at Azalea Station.

790

:

We had 75 guys and 75 girls.

791

:

Boys (2): That's incredible.

792

:

Mm-hmm.

793

:

I was gonna ask, 'cause like typically

I've seen some events around town,

794

:

but it's usually like you show

up and it's, you know, 32 girls.

795

:

Mm-hmm.

796

:

And.

797

:

F eight guys.

798

:

Amanda: Exactly.

799

:

Yeah.

800

:

So we kind of wanted to

have like an even ratio.

801

:

Yeah.

802

:

Mm-hmm.

803

:

Boys (2): So does, has

it worked out for you?

804

:

Amanda: No, it has not.

805

:

Boys (2): Well, I didn't say

for you, for, for the event.

806

:

So actually after the first

807

:

Amanda: event, we had some people,

like, we go out in public and like,

808

:

some people come up to us and they're

like, did you put on that singles event?

809

:

We're like, oh yeah.

810

:

And they're like, oh, I like

went on a date with someone or.

811

:

Like I'm talking to someone

or whatever, so that's cool.

812

:

Nice.

813

:

Yeah.

814

:

It'll

815

:

Boys: be really neat, like

after a few years of doing it.

816

:

Mm-hmm.

817

:

Just to kind of see like what happened.

818

:

Yes.

819

:

We're like, we need to

820

:

Amanda: get updates from

people, so, exactly.

821

:

Yeah.

822

:

Boys (2): Mm-hmm.

823

:

We have to like collect

their emails and stuff.

824

:

You're doing it like quarterly?

825

:

Amanda: We're doing them monthly.

826

:

Oh.

827

:

Mm-hmm.

828

:

We're aiming to do like

one big event per month.

829

:

Mm-hmm.

830

:

And then maybe like a couple smaller

events with different age ranges.

831

:

Our first.

832

:

Two events.

833

:

We did 25 to 45.

834

:

Okay.

835

:

Mm-hmm.

836

:

The next one as at the end of

April, it's at Outer Dunes Brewing.

837

:

That one's gonna be 24 plus.

838

:

Okay.

839

:

We have another one that's like 30

plus that's in the works, so we're

840

:

just kind of seeing how it goes.

841

:

Boys (2): I'm just, sorry, I'm,

I'm doing the cougar math here.

842

:

I knew you were thinking about that.

843

:

So, I mean, an

844

:

Amanda: age range is hard.

845

:

Like you don't want it to be

too much of an age range, but.

846

:

I dunno.

847

:

Boys (2): But I mean like if

you're on social, you can ask like

848

:

girlies who, like what range, age

range are you looking for boys?

849

:

What are you looking for?

850

:

Mm-hmm.

851

:

And yeah, but the problem is that, is

it, are the people showing up really

852

:

coming for to find somebody or are

they just coming to take somebody home?

853

:

Amanda: We can't guarantee.

854

:

I was gonna say, you dunno, I'm like, I

guarantee the quantity, not the quality.

855

:

I mean, I'm sure there's people there

that are looking for a range of different

856

:

things and that's maybe in the future

we'll do more events catered to goals.

857

:

Yeah.

858

:

But we're just like not quite there yet.

859

:

So, and I mean, the point of

it is you show up to a bar,

860

:

you know, everyone is single.

861

:

Mm-hmm.

862

:

There's no like, cheesy dating

games, we don't even have name tags.

863

:

Like, you just show up and you

just know everyone's single.

864

:

So you don't need to like, worry

about going up to someone and and

865

:

Boys (2): hitting on 'em.

866

:

Are they gonna, are you, am I gonna

867

:

Amanda: get rejected?

868

:

'cause they're in a relationship so.

869

:

Boys: Yeah.

870

:

Good.

871

:

Mm-hmm.

872

:

I was gonna ask kinda how that worked too.

873

:

I wasn't sure if it was like

a speed dating type of thing.

874

:

Mm-hmm.

875

:

Or is it just kind of like a mixer

and people get together and So Yeah.

876

:

So far just

877

:

Amanda: mixers, people like mingling.

878

:

Maybe in the future we'll

do more structured things.

879

:

We just haven't planned anything yet.

880

:

Boys (2): Yeah.

881

:

But

882

:

Amanda: we'll see.

883

:

Boys (2): That's neat.

884

:

Amanda: Yeah.

885

:

Still never did

886

:

Boys (2): speed dating Always wanted to.

887

:

Amanda: I, I don't think I would

wanna do something like that.

888

:

I don't know.

889

:

Boys (2): I grew up on

Hitch, so like Yeah.

890

:

Right.

891

:

That's what I think of.

892

:

That's my, that's my movie.

893

:

Mm-hmm.

894

:

So that's why my head was like.

895

:

Speed dating never got to that point.

896

:

'cause Wilmington didn't

have speed dating.

897

:

Mm-hmm.

898

:

Before I got married.

899

:

But I just, I just picture someone

just coming and sitting down and

900

:

like, no, I'm talking to her.

901

:

You scoot over.

902

:

Sorry.

903

:

Boys: Replay

904

:

Boys (2): movie

905

:

Boys: scenarios.

906

:

Boys (2): You wouldn't

ever, never want to.

907

:

That'd be funny though.

908

:

Amanda: Mm-hmm.

909

:

Boys (2): So you're just

staying a busy lady?

910

:

I'm very busy, yes.

911

:

Do you like it?

912

:

Amanda: I do, yeah.

913

:

I like staying busy.

914

:

Boys (2): Okay.

915

:

Do you see your family enough?

916

:

Amanda: Yes.

917

:

Boys (2): I don't know.

918

:

Some

919

:

Amanda: people thank you for check.

920

:

He did.

921

:

Boys: Like I said, you're just

out on the golf course today?

922

:

Amanda: Yeah, I golfed with my dad today.

923

:

Boys: Where do you golf?

924

:

Amanda: We went to Muni.

925

:

Okay.

926

:

We usually go to like their Beau Ravage.

927

:

Boys (2): Mm-hmm.

928

:

I don't play golf, so,

929

:

Amanda: okay.

930

:

I picked it up like a year and a half ago.

931

:

Okay.

932

:

Boys (2): So that's one of the things

like I've wanted to, but like in my

933

:

off days, it's like just recharging.

934

:

Amanda: Yes.

935

:

I know.

936

:

I feel like I used to have like every

weekday I would just like be able

937

:

to like sit at my house and relax.

938

:

Yeah.

939

:

And now I'm like, I

have something planned.

940

:

Every weeknight.

941

:

Yes.

942

:

So.

943

:

But it's good.

944

:

Boys: Good.

945

:

Mm-hmm.

946

:

Did you get lessons or anything

when you started golfing?

947

:

Oh yeah.

948

:

I still take lessons.

949

:

Oh yeah?

950

:

Mm-hmm.

951

:

Amanda: Yep.

952

:

I've taken a lot of lessons.

953

:

When I first picked it up,

I actually picked it up to

954

:

bring my dad to Pebble Beach.

955

:

Oh, nice.

956

:

And our plan was to go in six months, so I

was taking a lesson literally every week.

957

:

Oh wow.

958

:

So, but I got there together enough,

enough to play at Pebble Beach.

959

:

How?

960

:

Pebble Beach is hard.

961

:

Boys (2): That's what I heard.

962

:

I was gonna say, I'm like,

963

:

Amanda: I mean, I, my, after the

round, my dad was like, you played

964

:

the best I've ever seen you.

965

:

But in my head I'm like,

that was really, really bad.

966

:

Boys: Pebble Beach is just

really hard from what I've heard.

967

:

And then we

968

:

Amanda: actually, we went back again.

969

:

And so we went last March.

970

:

Mm-hmm.

971

:

And then we went back this past January.

972

:

And it was like a couple weeks

before the PGA was there.

973

:

Oh, wow.

974

:

So they were getting the course already.

975

:

So it was extra hard.

976

:

Yeah.

977

:

But it was still a lot of fun.

978

:

I was

979

:

Boys (2): gonna say, I'm like, I

heard Pebble Beach is really hard.

980

:

Yes.

981

:

I went to Augusta National

last year just to like mm-hmm.

982

:

Walk the grounds and I'm like,

he's actually a golf pro.

983

:

Just being modest.

984

:

I.

985

:

But I'm like, these people play

these courses just like dropping

986

:

them, dropping bombs all the time.

987

:

Mm-hmm.

988

:

And I'm like, how do you do that?

989

:

I would be in the trees.

990

:

Yeah.

991

:

Like that.

992

:

Like these courses, like the full

pro courses are so perfectly tight.

993

:

Like the lines are mm-hmm.

994

:

If you sneeze in the crowd, it's

gonna blow somebody's shot off.

995

:

Yeah.

996

:

Uhhuh.

997

:

Yeah.

998

:

So I applaud everyone who plays golf

and can get anywhere near a par.

999

:

Amanda: Yeah, I got, I

had a couple parts today.

:

00:24:49,228 --> 00:24:49,408

Boys (2): Dang.

:

00:24:49,888 --> 00:24:50,398

Amanda: Thanks.

:

00:24:51,583 --> 00:24:53,413

Boys: When you played the second

time when they were getting it ready,

:

00:24:53,413 --> 00:24:54,973

were the greens like super fast?

:

00:24:54,973 --> 00:24:56,053

Yeah, they really fast.

:

00:24:56,173 --> 00:24:56,233

Amanda: Yeah.

:

00:24:56,358 --> 00:24:58,813

I, I real like, I was like, I've

gotten better at reading the

:

00:24:58,813 --> 00:25:01,033

greens, but they were so hard.

:

00:25:01,183 --> 00:25:01,423

Right.

:

00:25:01,693 --> 00:25:04,633

And like you have to get, you don't

have to, but we got a caddy both times.

:

00:25:04,633 --> 00:25:06,223

We ended up having the

same caddy the second time.

:

00:25:06,433 --> 00:25:06,553

Oh, nice.

:

00:25:06,613 --> 00:25:08,083

He was like, you got a lot

better at reading them, but

:

00:25:08,083 --> 00:25:09,313

they're, they're just so hard.

:

00:25:09,318 --> 00:25:09,438

Mm-hmm.

:

00:25:09,763 --> 00:25:10,033

Right.

:

00:25:10,213 --> 00:25:10,333

Cool.

:

00:25:10,573 --> 00:25:11,653

Boys: Who are you taking lessons with?

:

00:25:12,013 --> 00:25:13,363

Amanda: His name is Greg Gman.

:

00:25:13,543 --> 00:25:13,723

Okay.

:

00:25:13,723 --> 00:25:16,333

He is the pro at Club Golf Indoor.

:

00:25:16,743 --> 00:25:17,503

Oh, at River Lake.

:

00:25:17,503 --> 00:25:17,743

Okay.

:

00:25:17,743 --> 00:25:17,744

Yeah.

:

00:25:17,823 --> 00:25:18,143

Mm-hmm.

:

00:25:18,313 --> 00:25:18,883

Yeah, he's great.

:

00:25:18,913 --> 00:25:19,183

Oh,

:

00:25:19,243 --> 00:25:21,813

Boys: I need to find a someone

to get, I'll give you his info.

:

00:25:21,933 --> 00:25:22,053

There's

:

00:25:22,113 --> 00:25:23,943

Boys (2): a spot in

Mayfair that just opened

:

00:25:23,943 --> 00:25:24,453

Boys: up Oh, yeah.

:

00:25:24,453 --> 00:25:24,603

On

:

00:25:24,603 --> 00:25:24,963

Boys (2): the, I've

:

00:25:24,963 --> 00:25:25,503

Amanda: heard of that one.

:

00:25:25,508 --> 00:25:25,708

Mm-hmm.

:

00:25:25,808 --> 00:25:26,323

Boys: Oh pop

:

00:25:26,323 --> 00:25:26,683

Boys (2): goes there.

:

00:25:27,433 --> 00:25:27,643

Boys: Oh.

:

00:25:28,153 --> 00:25:29,173

We got, there's options out there.

:

00:25:29,173 --> 00:25:29,563

Amanda: Mm-hmm.

:

00:25:29,863 --> 00:25:29,983

Oh yeah.

:

00:25:29,983 --> 00:25:29,985

I know.

:

00:25:30,043 --> 00:25:30,073

I

:

00:25:30,073 --> 00:25:30,853

Boys: need to get out there.

:

00:25:30,853 --> 00:25:32,173

I just never have yet.

:

00:25:32,173 --> 00:25:33,793

And it's just like finding someone mm-hmm.

:

00:25:34,033 --> 00:25:35,623

To go with and look like a fool.

:

00:25:36,078 --> 00:25:37,000

So it's really, it's a,

:

00:25:37,518 --> 00:25:40,963

Amanda: I I tried lessons other places

and it just wasn't a good fit, but mm-hmm.

:

00:25:41,203 --> 00:25:41,263

Yeah.

:

00:25:41,263 --> 00:25:41,264

Yeah.

:

00:25:41,269 --> 00:25:42,103

You just gotta find someone.

:

00:25:42,298 --> 00:25:44,938

Boys (2): Or year five, we're trying

to do a, a golf tournament mm-hmm.

:

00:25:45,208 --> 00:25:46,873

And support something local.

:

00:25:47,073 --> 00:25:48,303

Boys: We got two years, so we're, yeah.

:

00:25:48,363 --> 00:25:52,203

So where did I go that you

couldn't go because I'm.

:

00:25:53,088 --> 00:25:54,138

No, shut up.

:

00:25:55,278 --> 00:25:56,388

He was trying to play a race chord

:

00:25:56,863 --> 00:25:58,153

Boys (2): oh, out in Wallace area.

:

00:25:58,183 --> 00:25:58,663

Boys: Yeah.

:

00:25:59,293 --> 00:25:59,383

Why?

:

00:25:59,383 --> 00:26:00,583

Can't remember what that's called.

:

00:26:01,633 --> 00:26:02,713

Boys (2): Justin used to work there.

:

00:26:03,523 --> 00:26:03,703

Boys: Yep.

:

00:26:03,733 --> 00:26:04,273

Where the Mad Bo is.

:

00:26:04,273 --> 00:26:04,603

Okay.

:

00:26:05,293 --> 00:26:06,703

Anyway, yeah.

:

00:26:06,763 --> 00:26:09,043

Boys (2): So he, he went

out there and it was like.

:

00:26:09,793 --> 00:26:12,193

Too close to Thanksgiving and

I work in retail, so I was

:

00:26:12,193 --> 00:26:13,273

not getting off that time.

:

00:26:13,273 --> 00:26:13,393

Gotcha.

:

00:26:13,393 --> 00:26:13,723

Yeah.

:

00:26:13,753 --> 00:26:16,393

Boys: So I was able to get some

lessons out there by like one of their

:

00:26:16,453 --> 00:26:17,773

top people, which was pretty cool.

:

00:26:18,043 --> 00:26:19,538

It was still embarrassing

though, river Landing because

:

00:26:19,543 --> 00:26:20,863

I was like, I River Landing.

:

00:26:21,288 --> 00:26:21,578

Amanda: Okay.

:

00:26:21,578 --> 00:26:21,579

Mm-hmm.

:

00:26:21,823 --> 00:26:22,183

Yeah.

:

00:26:22,753 --> 00:26:23,698

Boys: So those play out there.

:

00:26:24,118 --> 00:26:25,063

Amanda: No, I haven't.

:

00:26:25,123 --> 00:26:25,453

Boys (2): You should.

:

00:26:25,453 --> 00:26:26,323

It's really pretty.

:

00:26:26,473 --> 00:26:27,313

The River course.

:

00:26:27,583 --> 00:26:27,943

Yeah.

:

00:26:29,533 --> 00:26:33,123

There was another, there's another

course that I know in Leland,

:

00:26:34,713 --> 00:26:35,703

there's a few of them out there.

:

00:26:36,153 --> 00:26:38,613

Yeah, I'm surprised there's so

many golf courses around here.

:

00:26:38,643 --> 00:26:40,983

Amanda: I feel like we don't have a lot

of options in Wilmington that are public.

:

00:26:41,403 --> 00:26:41,673

Right.

:

00:26:41,673 --> 00:26:42,993

Basically just Muni and Boat Ravage.

:

00:26:42,993 --> 00:26:43,863

Boys (2): Exactly, yes.

:

00:26:44,313 --> 00:26:48,093

Well, and the funny thing is like

Brunswick County, doesn't it have like

:

00:26:48,213 --> 00:26:50,823

almost the most Brunswick County or.

:

00:26:51,948 --> 00:26:52,788

Myrtle Beach.

:

00:26:53,148 --> 00:26:53,478

Yeah.

:

00:26:53,483 --> 00:26:54,243

There's lot down there.

:

00:26:54,243 --> 00:26:55,248

That area had the most mm-hmm.

:

00:26:55,248 --> 00:26:55,998

Golf courses.

:

00:26:56,358 --> 00:26:59,568

Like I was driving to Sunset Beach

and passed three golf courses.

:

00:26:59,573 --> 00:26:59,723

Amanda: Mm-hmm.

:

00:26:59,903 --> 00:27:00,438

I'm like, what the,

:

00:27:00,588 --> 00:27:02,118

Boys (2): and they're all

like hidden in the backs.

:

00:27:02,123 --> 00:27:02,363

Yeah.

:

00:27:02,568 --> 00:27:02,808

Boys: Yeah.

:

00:27:02,808 --> 00:27:03,438

You'd never know that.

:

00:27:03,438 --> 00:27:03,528

Yeah.

:

00:27:03,618 --> 00:27:03,888

We just don't

:

00:27:03,888 --> 00:27:05,538

Amanda: have a lot of

options here, unfortunately.

:

00:27:06,078 --> 00:27:07,488

Like iron cloud's, good.

:

00:27:07,698 --> 00:27:08,628

Castle Bay is fun.

:

00:27:08,628 --> 00:27:08,718

Mm-hmm.

:

00:27:09,918 --> 00:27:10,038

Boys: Yeah.

:

00:27:11,118 --> 00:27:12,003

What made you wanna get into it?

:

00:27:13,698 --> 00:27:14,868

Amanda: So I played when I was little.

:

00:27:14,873 --> 00:27:15,053

Boys: Okay.

:

00:27:15,378 --> 00:27:15,408

Okay.

:

00:27:15,463 --> 00:27:18,493

Amanda: But the main goal when I came

back was to take my dad to Pebble Beach.

:

00:27:18,553 --> 00:27:21,753

He wanted to go with my grandpa his dad.

:

00:27:22,053 --> 00:27:22,173

Right.

:

00:27:22,203 --> 00:27:24,213

And then my grandma got

sick and they never made it.

:

00:27:24,513 --> 00:27:28,383

So, and then I was like, I'll just pay

for my brother and my dad to play there.

:

00:27:28,383 --> 00:27:30,093

And then my mom was like, why

don't you pick it back up?

:

00:27:30,093 --> 00:27:30,663

And I was like, really?

:

00:27:31,413 --> 00:27:33,603

So, and I love it, so I stuck with it.

:

00:27:33,603 --> 00:27:34,023

Nice.

:

00:27:34,053 --> 00:27:34,653

Mm-hmm.

:

00:27:34,893 --> 00:27:35,043

Boys: That's

:

00:27:35,043 --> 00:27:35,133

Amanda: neat.

:

00:27:35,133 --> 00:27:35,288

That's fine.

:

00:27:35,823 --> 00:27:37,953

Boys: It's probably a good way

to get out of everything else

:

00:27:37,953 --> 00:27:38,898

that you're doing and kind.

:

00:27:38,958 --> 00:27:39,418

Yes, definitely.

:

00:27:39,638 --> 00:27:41,373

It kind of forces you to relax.

:

00:27:41,403 --> 00:27:41,523

Yeah.

:

00:27:41,523 --> 00:27:42,033

Because you mm-hmm.

:

00:27:42,033 --> 00:27:44,953

If you're not focusing on your

on your stroke or whatever,

:

00:27:44,953 --> 00:27:46,123

like you're not gonna do

:

00:27:46,123 --> 00:27:46,273

Amanda: well.

:

00:27:46,303 --> 00:27:46,483

Mm-hmm.

:

00:27:47,053 --> 00:27:47,593

Yeah, for sure.

:

00:27:47,593 --> 00:27:47,713

That's

:

00:27:47,713 --> 00:27:47,863

Boys: what

:

00:27:47,863 --> 00:27:49,183

Boys (2): you need to do next year.

:

00:27:49,213 --> 00:27:49,633

Amanda: What

:

00:27:49,993 --> 00:27:54,838

Boys (2): is a mixture during one

of the like, big tours, tour events.

:

00:27:54,898 --> 00:27:55,118

Oh,

:

00:27:55,238 --> 00:27:55,933

Amanda: that's a good idea.

:

00:27:55,993 --> 00:27:57,733

Boys (2): So like Masters, pebble Beach.

:

00:27:57,823 --> 00:27:57,913

Mm-hmm.

:

00:27:58,933 --> 00:27:59,473

PJA

:

00:27:59,833 --> 00:28:00,673

Amanda: Would guys come to that?

:

00:28:00,973 --> 00:28:01,363

Boys (2): Yeah.

:

00:28:01,978 --> 00:28:05,218

Because if you do it a in a bar

that has the game, has it on the tv?

:

00:28:05,223 --> 00:28:05,383

Yeah.

:

00:28:05,388 --> 00:28:05,638

Yeah.

:

00:28:05,698 --> 00:28:07,663

Because you can do it on like

a Saturday and everyone's true.

:

00:28:07,668 --> 00:28:08,428

Everyone's coming in.

:

00:28:08,458 --> 00:28:08,548

Mm-hmm.

:

00:28:08,908 --> 00:28:10,288

They're getting drinks, they're chilling.

:

00:28:10,288 --> 00:28:12,688

And you typically, that means

that the guys know that the

:

00:28:12,688 --> 00:28:14,218

girls know something about golf.

:

00:28:14,278 --> 00:28:14,638

Amanda: That's true.

:

00:28:15,358 --> 00:28:19,258

Boys (2): And golf is also not like as

intensive as watching a football game.

:

00:28:19,258 --> 00:28:19,438

Yeah,

:

00:28:19,468 --> 00:28:19,948

Amanda: definitely.

:

00:28:20,038 --> 00:28:20,128

Mm-hmm.

:

00:28:20,368 --> 00:28:20,458

So they're

:

00:28:20,458 --> 00:28:21,298

Boys (2): not as distracted.

:

00:28:21,298 --> 00:28:21,388

Mm-hmm.

:

00:28:22,498 --> 00:28:23,458

Boys: That's not a bad idea.

:

00:28:23,548 --> 00:28:27,318

Maybe that'll pare down on the

like overwhelm of women going

:

00:28:27,318 --> 00:28:29,358

to like tailor it into, yes.

:

00:28:29,838 --> 00:28:30,108

Amanda: Yeah.

:

00:28:30,108 --> 00:28:30,168

Yeah.

:

00:28:30,678 --> 00:28:31,878

Boys (2): Just saying,

I got that off TikTok.

:

00:28:31,878 --> 00:28:32,118

Good idea.

:

00:28:32,718 --> 00:28:33,258

Amanda: Perfect.

:

00:28:33,468 --> 00:28:33,618

Boys (2): Yeah.

:

00:28:33,618 --> 00:28:36,258

A girl was like, I'm at the

sports Bart watching the Masters.

:

00:28:37,308 --> 00:28:41,353

Just so the guys know

I know what's going on.

:

00:28:41,633 --> 00:28:41,793

Yes.

:

00:28:42,978 --> 00:28:44,208

At least pretend at least.

:

00:28:44,208 --> 00:28:44,418

Yes.

:

00:28:44,988 --> 00:28:46,458

Did you see who was

winning before he came in?

:

00:28:46,788 --> 00:28:48,739

Amanda: I saw Rory was

winning before I came.

:

00:28:48,739 --> 00:28:48,833

Did he come back?

:

00:28:48,833 --> 00:28:49,068

Came back.

:

00:28:49,758 --> 00:28:51,198

He like double Bo Double vogue.

:

00:28:51,198 --> 00:28:52,218

The first hole I think.

:

00:28:52,313 --> 00:28:52,553

I think

:

00:28:52,578 --> 00:28:52,878

Boys: so.

:

00:28:52,883 --> 00:28:52,953

Yeah.

:

00:28:52,958 --> 00:28:53,208

Yeah.

:

00:28:53,208 --> 00:28:54,408

Amanda: And then has come back.

:

00:28:54,453 --> 00:28:55,473

Boys: Mm-hmm.

:

00:28:55,713 --> 00:28:55,743

I

:

00:28:55,743 --> 00:28:56,673

Amanda: love Bryson though.

:

00:28:57,098 --> 00:28:58,378

Boys: I know I was rooting for before.

:

00:28:58,378 --> 00:28:58,803

Before he keeps

:

00:28:58,803 --> 00:29:00,273

Boys (2): fucking up and never winning.

:

00:29:00,273 --> 00:29:01,413

So I want him to win at least.

:

00:29:01,413 --> 00:29:01,863

And that's what my

:

00:29:01,863 --> 00:29:02,343

Amanda: friend said.

:

00:29:02,343 --> 00:29:03,453

I know I'm a Bryson girl.

:

00:29:05,193 --> 00:29:06,003

Boys: He was up by two.

:

00:29:06,303 --> 00:29:07,293

It explain a lot semi checks.

:

00:29:09,693 --> 00:29:10,533

Amanda: I saw him play.

:

00:29:10,593 --> 00:29:12,753

We went to the US Open

in Pinehurst last summer.

:

00:29:12,813 --> 00:29:13,113

Oh, nice.

:

00:29:13,173 --> 00:29:14,793

We went on Friday, so we saw him play.

:

00:29:14,793 --> 00:29:15,513

So that was cool.

:

00:29:15,903 --> 00:29:17,073

Boys (2): I wanted to go before he won.

:

00:29:17,253 --> 00:29:17,763

I had to work.

:

00:29:18,753 --> 00:29:21,903

Amanda: It was hot, it was miserable.

:

00:29:22,593 --> 00:29:23,943

So much walking.

:

00:29:24,618 --> 00:29:24,888

Yeah.

:

00:29:25,458 --> 00:29:26,213

Boys (2): And it's just, but fun.

:

00:29:26,328 --> 00:29:29,418

It's so sandy out there, so like,

it feels like everything is just

:

00:29:29,418 --> 00:29:29,508

Amanda: mm-hmm.

:

00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:33,240

Boys (2): So you just, so you

prefer the big bulky guy who just

:

00:29:34,860 --> 00:29:37,765

Amanda: bryson's bulky compared

to like comparatively, he's like

:

00:29:38,245 --> 00:29:38,885

Boys: muscular Yeah.

:

00:29:39,245 --> 00:29:40,230

Compared to Rory.

:

00:29:40,470 --> 00:29:40,890

Amanda: Okay.

:

00:29:40,890 --> 00:29:40,891

Yeah.

:

00:29:40,896 --> 00:29:41,280

I, yeah.

:

00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:41,850

Then yes.

:

00:29:42,005 --> 00:29:42,245

Okay.

:

00:29:42,245 --> 00:29:42,246

So

:

00:29:43,230 --> 00:29:44,400

Boys: like bigger muscular guys.

:

00:29:44,430 --> 00:29:45,810

'cause he's definitely

one of the bigger guys.

:

00:29:45,810 --> 00:29:46,285

I get what you're saying.

:

00:29:46,285 --> 00:29:46,365

Yeah.

:

00:29:46,710 --> 00:29:47,040

Uhhuh because he

:

00:29:47,040 --> 00:29:50,190

Boys (2): put on a ton of, like, he put on

a ton of muscle, if not a ton of weight.

:

00:29:50,245 --> 00:29:50,485

Mm-hmm.

:

00:29:50,820 --> 00:29:52,650

That one ear just to fuck with everybody.

:

00:29:53,370 --> 00:29:53,730

Yeah.

:

00:29:54,150 --> 00:29:54,900

Do you not see that?

:

00:29:54,900 --> 00:29:55,830

Yeah, I, I, I see it.

:

00:29:55,835 --> 00:29:55,925

Okay.

:

00:29:55,950 --> 00:29:56,190

Yeah.

:

00:29:56,490 --> 00:29:57,060

Amanda: I, you know what you're saying?

:

00:29:57,150 --> 00:29:59,760

Boys (2): That's, that's how I remember

him is he showed up and they were

:

00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:01,230

like, bro, you were way too big.

:

00:30:01,230 --> 00:30:03,150

And he is like, but watch this.

:

00:30:03,180 --> 00:30:03,270

Yeah.

:

00:30:04,140 --> 00:30:04,770

Amanda: Slam it.

:

00:30:04,830 --> 00:30:05,100

Yeah.

:

00:30:05,130 --> 00:30:05,250

Mm-hmm.

:

00:30:05,490 --> 00:30:05,491

Yeah.

:

00:30:05,496 --> 00:30:05,765

Mm-hmm.

:

00:30:06,180 --> 00:30:06,840

That's what I think

:

00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:06,930

Boys: of.

:

00:30:07,740 --> 00:30:10,470

My favorite thing was when he

was shooting over his house.

:

00:30:10,830 --> 00:30:10,980

Yes.

:

00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:11,700

Oh my God.

:

00:30:11,700 --> 00:30:11,850

Yeah.

:

00:30:11,850 --> 00:30:13,290

I watched all this uhhuh

:

00:30:13,530 --> 00:30:14,610

Boys (2): that just gives me insight.

:

00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:15,760

I know.

:

00:30:15,760 --> 00:30:16,575

Like it, like I would totally

:

00:30:16,575 --> 00:30:17,040

Amanda: hit the glass.

:

00:30:17,410 --> 00:30:18,405

Boys (2): Everything, the whole

:

00:30:18,405 --> 00:30:19,215

Amanda: thing is glass.

:

00:30:19,215 --> 00:30:19,515

Boys (2): No.

:

00:30:19,755 --> 00:30:21,225

Well, they had a net in front of 'em.

:

00:30:21,225 --> 00:30:22,275

'cause I was Oh, they did?

:

00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:24,520

I, I watched it and the

net was like far enough.

:

00:30:24,540 --> 00:30:25,440

That's misleading.

:

00:30:25,460 --> 00:30:25,800

I'm just kidding.

:

00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:29,295

Yeah, it was far enough away that

like it could protect Gotcha.

:

00:30:29,655 --> 00:30:30,435

Like a trip, a true shot.

:

00:30:30,435 --> 00:30:30,436

Mm-hmm.

:

00:30:30,495 --> 00:30:30,585

Mm-hmm.

:

00:30:30,865 --> 00:30:32,665

But not interfere with not gotcha.

:

00:30:32,665 --> 00:30:33,025

Whatever.

:

00:30:33,175 --> 00:30:35,605

Amanda: I mean, I can hit

my driver like, no problem.

:

00:30:35,605 --> 00:30:36,925

Like I'll hit at Turner plus yards.

:

00:30:37,300 --> 00:30:38,290

Cannot hit my irons.

:

00:30:38,390 --> 00:30:38,610

Wow.

:

00:30:38,655 --> 00:30:40,025

Like my irons are, it sounds the opposite.

:

00:30:40,025 --> 00:30:43,210

I can't, that irons are rough, so I

would, I would hit, I would hit the glass.

:

00:30:43,600 --> 00:30:44,140

Boys (2): Yeah.

:

00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:44,560

Yeah.

:

00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:45,370

No, I,

:

00:30:47,620 --> 00:30:49,810

I just suck at golf every time.

:

00:30:49,810 --> 00:30:50,290

It's hard.

:

00:30:50,290 --> 00:30:55,690

Every time we go to play, like at

like, just shooting the shit, I will

:

00:30:56,800 --> 00:30:58,870

cut it or slice the shit out of it.

:

00:30:58,870 --> 00:30:58,960

Mm-hmm.

:

00:30:59,200 --> 00:30:59,800

No matter what.

:

00:30:59,805 --> 00:31:00,055

Amanda: Mm-hmm.

:

00:31:02,365 --> 00:31:06,205

Boys (2): I never end up in the

center of the driving range.

:

00:31:06,205 --> 00:31:06,206

Mm-hmm.

:

00:31:06,211 --> 00:31:06,295

Mm-hmm.

:

00:31:06,535 --> 00:31:07,421

I'm always on the left or the right.

:

00:31:07,421 --> 00:31:07,422

Mm-hmm.

:

00:31:08,245 --> 00:31:11,815

And I will always cut it or

whatever to hit into the net.

:

00:31:12,535 --> 00:31:12,625

Mm-hmm.

:

00:31:12,865 --> 00:31:13,645

This is bullshit.

:

00:31:14,395 --> 00:31:17,185

Boys: The thing, so one of my

favorite things to do just for

:

00:31:17,185 --> 00:31:19,775

like fun is go out to Topgolf.

:

00:31:20,105 --> 00:31:20,465

Amanda: Mm-hmm.

:

00:31:20,650 --> 00:31:22,415

I've never been to one of those ever.

:

00:31:22,415 --> 00:31:22,895

I'm missing out.

:

00:31:22,970 --> 00:31:23,580

It's, no,

:

00:31:23,585 --> 00:31:24,155

Boys: it's a great

:

00:31:24,155 --> 00:31:24,725

Boys (2): date idea.

:

00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:26,690

Amanda: We need one here.

:

00:31:27,260 --> 00:31:29,510

Boys (2): We there's a lot into that.

:

00:31:29,870 --> 00:31:30,080

Yeah.

:

00:31:30,140 --> 00:31:30,746

We're not big enough yet there.

:

00:31:30,751 --> 00:31:31,700

There's a driving bar.

:

00:31:31,940 --> 00:31:32,480

Boys: Drive, drive.

:

00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:33,770

Barn.

:

00:31:33,770 --> 00:31:34,185

Golf, golf, golf.

:

00:31:34,185 --> 00:31:35,000

I have not been there yet.

:

00:31:35,060 --> 00:31:35,390

You should.

:

00:31:35,390 --> 00:31:35,990

It's a lot closer.

:

00:31:35,990 --> 00:31:36,050

Yeah.

:

00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:36,170

Mm-hmm.

:

00:31:36,270 --> 00:31:38,530

They use the same like

tracing technology mm-hmm.

:

00:31:38,530 --> 00:31:39,040

And stuff out there.

:

00:31:39,040 --> 00:31:39,895

I think I saw that on their Instagram.

:

00:31:40,085 --> 00:31:40,375

Yeah.

:

00:31:40,375 --> 00:31:40,615

Mm-hmm.

:

00:31:40,955 --> 00:31:41,950

And they have put putt.

:

00:31:42,700 --> 00:31:42,910

Yeah.

:

00:31:43,420 --> 00:31:43,780

Amanda: Nice.

:

00:31:43,780 --> 00:31:45,040

Boys (2): You just, that's

I'm here for same thing.

:

00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:45,580

Just separate.

:

00:31:45,790 --> 00:31:46,540

Boys: No, that's what I'm here

:

00:31:46,540 --> 00:31:46,870

Boys (2): for.

:

00:31:47,380 --> 00:31:47,830

Boys: Anyway.

:

00:31:49,150 --> 00:31:49,750

Top golf.

:

00:31:49,750 --> 00:31:49,752

Top golf.

:

00:31:49,752 --> 00:31:49,754

Top golf.

:

00:31:49,759 --> 00:31:50,170

Yes.

:

00:31:50,530 --> 00:31:54,190

When this was before, like I'd never

thought I'd play golf in my life

:

00:31:54,190 --> 00:31:55,600

'cause I just sucked at driving.

:

00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:55,601

Mm-hmm.

:

00:31:55,665 --> 00:31:57,700

And I'm like, that's kind of

the first things you have to

:

00:31:57,700 --> 00:31:59,290

do in order to like do decent.

:

00:31:59,980 --> 00:32:03,100

So they had men's clubs

and they had women's clubs.

:

00:32:03,105 --> 00:32:03,345

Amanda: Mm-hmm.

:

00:32:03,610 --> 00:32:06,280

Boys: And so I just went and I would

get the men's club all the time and I

:

00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:08,110

was like, why can't I use these things?

:

00:32:08,260 --> 00:32:10,780

Like I guess I'm just not good

at golf, I'm not good at driving.

:

00:32:11,230 --> 00:32:14,960

The last time I went there I

noticed they took the signs off.

:

00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:15,170

Mm-hmm.

:

00:32:15,410 --> 00:32:18,170

And it says, it doesn't

say men or women anymore.

:

00:32:18,230 --> 00:32:18,440

It says.

:

00:32:19,850 --> 00:32:21,260

Tall club, short clubs.

:

00:32:22,130 --> 00:32:22,280

Amanda: Oh.

:

00:32:22,550 --> 00:32:23,210

Boys: And I was like,

:

00:32:23,630 --> 00:32:24,350

Boys (2): that is misleading.

:

00:32:24,350 --> 00:32:25,070

I know,

:

00:32:25,130 --> 00:32:25,610

Boys: I know.

:

00:32:25,610 --> 00:32:28,370

This means the women's

clubs, but it says short.

:

00:32:28,460 --> 00:32:29,300

That's what I am.

:

00:32:30,020 --> 00:32:32,330

And so I picked it up and

it just sailed amazing.

:

00:32:32,330 --> 00:32:35,150

I was like, ah, I was

using the wrong high.

:

00:32:35,150 --> 00:32:37,220

That's, that's why they

switched those, those titles.

:

00:32:37,490 --> 00:32:37,730

Yeah.

:

00:32:37,790 --> 00:32:38,295

And I was like, it's still

:

00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:41,810

Boys (2): misleading because that tall

club is still not tall enough for me.

:

00:32:42,740 --> 00:32:45,020

Boys: Well, he's absurdly

tall and I'm sorely short.

:

00:32:45,110 --> 00:32:48,410

So those are average people, high clubs.

:

00:32:48,410 --> 00:32:48,710

True.

:

00:32:49,295 --> 00:32:53,165

Boys (2): So going back, like

I said, I like to jump around.

:

00:32:53,165 --> 00:32:53,255

Mm-hmm.

:

00:32:53,495 --> 00:32:54,185

Do all the fun stuff.

:

00:32:54,185 --> 00:32:54,515

That is fine.

:

00:32:54,725 --> 00:32:57,575

We're gonna go back, do

dupe to your weddings.

:

00:32:57,935 --> 00:32:58,325

Amanda: Okay.

:

00:32:58,385 --> 00:32:59,615

Boys (2): Doing all the fun stuff there.

:

00:32:59,615 --> 00:32:59,616

Mm-hmm.

:

00:32:59,690 --> 00:32:59,970

Mm-hmm.

:

00:33:01,505 --> 00:33:01,795

Yeah.

:

00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:04,820

Do you just follow the trends or

do you just like pull some stuff,

:

00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:08,150

like just see angles and you're

like, oh, I should catch this?

:

00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:11,630

Amanda: Yeah, I mean, it's just kind

of like just following the bride

:

00:33:11,630 --> 00:33:14,270

and groom around, following the

photographer around and like kind of

:

00:33:14,270 --> 00:33:15,980

just getting little clips here and there.

:

00:33:16,580 --> 00:33:16,610

Okay.

:

00:33:16,610 --> 00:33:17,990

I talk to them ahead of time.

:

00:33:17,990 --> 00:33:20,960

We do like a little session on the phone

just to see if anything's important

:

00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:22,520

to 'em, for me to capture that day.

:

00:33:22,610 --> 00:33:22,880

Mm-hmm.

:

00:33:23,130 --> 00:33:26,130

And then as far as like reels or tiktoks

go, if they want to send some ahead

:

00:33:26,130 --> 00:33:30,960

of time that they definitely wanna do,

they can, or I just kind of go with it.

:

00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:31,440

Make them up.

:

00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:31,680

Yeah.

:

00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:31,770

Nice.

:

00:33:31,950 --> 00:33:32,040

Boys (2): Mm-hmm.

:

00:33:32,460 --> 00:33:34,290

Amanda: And then, I mean, there's

trending ones out there and trending

:

00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:36,360

audios and all that, so always.

:

00:33:36,365 --> 00:33:36,585

Mm-hmm.

:

00:33:37,445 --> 00:33:39,060

Boys (2): So talking about weddings.

:

00:33:39,060 --> 00:33:39,300

Mm-hmm.

:

00:33:39,780 --> 00:33:41,670

I'm gonna ask this, the reels question.

:

00:33:42,930 --> 00:33:45,300

Should a guy wear an Apple

watch at his wedding?

:

00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:45,900

Amanda: No.

:

00:33:46,875 --> 00:33:47,175

Boys (2): Okay.

:

00:33:47,930 --> 00:33:48,220

Just

:

00:33:48,220 --> 00:33:49,180

Amanda: needed somebody straight up.

:

00:33:49,305 --> 00:33:50,385

Just needed someone to say, no.

:

00:33:50,385 --> 00:33:52,335

Ill watch for any formal events.

:

00:33:53,235 --> 00:33:53,535

Boys (2): Thank you.

:

00:33:53,565 --> 00:33:55,425

Amanda: Or like in a different

band for it or something?

:

00:33:55,725 --> 00:33:55,815

No,

:

00:33:56,445 --> 00:33:57,225

Boys (2): I was dying.

:

00:33:57,225 --> 00:33:57,525

I saw like.

:

00:33:58,980 --> 00:34:01,680

A cute bride and groom photo at a wedding.

:

00:34:01,770 --> 00:34:01,860

Mm-hmm.

:

00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:06,300

And like he was reaching out and

his phone, his Apple watch had just

:

00:34:06,300 --> 00:34:08,250

done a, had an ESPN ping to it.

:

00:34:08,429 --> 00:34:09,960

Oh, I think I saw that.

:

00:34:09,965 --> 00:34:09,985

Yeah.

:

00:34:09,985 --> 00:34:13,050

And I'm like, yeah, yeah, yeah.

:

00:34:13,199 --> 00:34:14,429

A way to ruin the photo.

:

00:34:15,090 --> 00:34:15,179

Mm-hmm.

:

00:34:15,420 --> 00:34:15,420

Mm-hmm.

:

00:34:15,427 --> 00:34:18,570

And then you gotta pay the, the

photographer extra to like edit that out.

:

00:34:18,570 --> 00:34:19,110

Photoshop of, yeah.

:

00:34:19,560 --> 00:34:20,580

A blank screen.

:

00:34:20,610 --> 00:34:23,370

Like, no bro, just wear a real watch.

:

00:34:23,550 --> 00:34:24,840

Or just don't wear a watch at all.

:

00:34:25,409 --> 00:34:26,010

Amanda: Exactly.

:

00:34:27,179 --> 00:34:29,639

Boys: We both spent a lot of time

in the jewelry industry, so we

:

00:34:29,639 --> 00:34:31,020

have very strong opinions on this.

:

00:34:31,050 --> 00:34:31,380

Yes.

:

00:34:31,949 --> 00:34:33,239

Amanda: Would you say no Apple watches?

:

00:34:33,300 --> 00:34:33,690

Yes.

:

00:34:33,690 --> 00:34:34,199

Both of you?

:

00:34:34,230 --> 00:34:34,560

Yes.

:

00:34:34,620 --> 00:34:35,100

Yeah.

:

00:34:35,100 --> 00:34:35,190

Yep.

:

00:34:35,195 --> 00:34:35,405

Mm-hmm.

:

00:34:36,150 --> 00:34:36,449

Yes.

:

00:34:36,510 --> 00:34:37,920

What about like putting

a different band on it?

:

00:34:38,219 --> 00:34:38,520

No.

:

00:34:38,670 --> 00:34:38,969

No.

:

00:34:39,270 --> 00:34:40,800

Boys: At least that's like an improvement.

:

00:34:40,860 --> 00:34:41,880

You're really trying,

:

00:34:41,940 --> 00:34:45,929

Boys (2): so putting a different band on

a Apple Watch is for you on a date night.

:

00:34:46,500 --> 00:34:47,130

Amanda: That's valid,

:

00:34:47,610 --> 00:34:50,610

Boys (2): but that is a specialty

event and you should not have

:

00:34:50,639 --> 00:34:50,969

Amanda: That's true.

:

00:34:51,090 --> 00:34:52,290

'cause of the whole screen and Yeah.

:

00:34:52,350 --> 00:34:52,800

Yes.

:

00:34:53,190 --> 00:34:54,570

Boys (2): In reality, so like.

:

00:34:55,155 --> 00:34:56,715

Also depends on culture.

:

00:34:56,715 --> 00:35:04,545

So like in Southern Korea, they do

a thing where like the groom gets

:

00:35:04,545 --> 00:35:06,855

a watch from the brides family.

:

00:35:06,885 --> 00:35:06,945

Okay?

:

00:35:06,990 --> 00:35:07,230

Mm-hmm.

:

00:35:07,236 --> 00:35:10,425

For the, like for the wedding,

which I think is kind of cool.

:

00:35:10,455 --> 00:35:10,545

Mm-hmm.

:

00:35:10,785 --> 00:35:12,405

Typically it's a Rolex

or something like, hi.

:

00:35:13,305 --> 00:35:17,625

But I've also heard in America you

don't give a watch on a wedding day.

:

00:35:17,655 --> 00:35:18,915

'cause that gives bad luck.

:

00:35:19,575 --> 00:35:20,070

Amanda: I've never heard that.

:

00:35:20,070 --> 00:35:20,925

Never heard of that, huh?

:

00:35:20,925 --> 00:35:21,135

Because

:

00:35:21,135 --> 00:35:21,615

Boys (2): then.

:

00:35:21,945 --> 00:35:24,975

If you get the gift as your

wedding day gift, if the watch

:

00:35:24,975 --> 00:35:28,905

breaks, that symbolizes like you're

putting time limit on the wedding.

:

00:35:28,995 --> 00:35:29,715

Amanda: Oh, okay.

:

00:35:29,715 --> 00:35:29,865

So

:

00:35:29,865 --> 00:35:31,005

Boys (2): if you're gonna get a watch.

:

00:35:31,590 --> 00:35:34,350

For your significant other,

do it as an engagement piece.

:

00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:34,920

Amanda: Alright.

:

00:35:35,370 --> 00:35:35,550

Boys (2): Yeah.

:

00:35:35,970 --> 00:35:38,335

Amanda: For the future, if that ever

happens, I'll keep that in mind.

:

00:35:38,335 --> 00:35:38,730

So you get, if you get a

:

00:35:38,730 --> 00:35:39,960

Boys (2): ring, he gets a watch.

:

00:35:40,020 --> 00:35:40,410

Amanda: Perfect.

:

00:35:40,410 --> 00:35:40,710

Yes.

:

00:35:40,890 --> 00:35:41,070

Or

:

00:35:41,070 --> 00:35:43,230

Boys (2): as an anniversary

piece, we have always been pushing

:

00:35:43,230 --> 00:35:45,240

the an the engagement watch.

:

00:35:45,240 --> 00:35:46,500

I'm gonna push the anniversary.

:

00:35:46,505 --> 00:35:47,495

We're trying to make it a thing.

:

00:35:49,560 --> 00:35:50,220

Going to do it.

:

00:35:50,610 --> 00:35:51,600

You wear an Apple watch?

:

00:35:51,810 --> 00:35:51,960

Amanda: I do.

:

00:35:52,440 --> 00:35:52,920

It's right here.

:

00:35:53,730 --> 00:35:54,960

I don't wear it to formal events.

:

00:35:55,050 --> 00:35:55,440

Oh, okay.

:

00:35:55,620 --> 00:35:55,950

Yeah.

:

00:35:56,340 --> 00:35:56,580

Cool.

:

00:35:56,760 --> 00:35:57,600

Like I went to Garden Party.

:

00:35:57,600 --> 00:35:59,730

I did not wear it, but I was

like dying the whole day.

:

00:35:59,850 --> 00:36:02,850

Boys (2): Did you see the shorty

who had the sheer dress on?

:

00:36:02,850 --> 00:36:03,150

I saw

:

00:36:03,150 --> 00:36:03,810

Amanda: it on Instagram.

:

00:36:03,810 --> 00:36:04,920

I did not see that in person.

:

00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:05,535

So it wasn't you?

:

00:36:05,730 --> 00:36:06,450

It was not me.

:

00:36:08,130 --> 00:36:08,430

Boys (2): Never.

:

00:36:08,430 --> 00:36:08,490

No.

:

00:36:09,270 --> 00:36:13,830

My friend, we were seeing it at

work and my coworker's husband was

:

00:36:13,830 --> 00:36:17,130

at the event, and then he sent her

the picture before it was posted on

:

00:36:17,130 --> 00:36:19,680

social, and I was like, oh my gosh.

:

00:36:19,920 --> 00:36:22,170

I'm like, from this angle, she

at least has a decent butt.

:

00:36:23,225 --> 00:36:25,085

And then like someone

else had a better angle.

:

00:36:25,085 --> 00:36:27,185

I'm like, oh yeah, she

shouldn't have worn that.

:

00:36:27,185 --> 00:36:30,095

Nevermind, I did not hear about this.

:

00:36:30,425 --> 00:36:30,935

Oh yeah.

:

00:36:30,950 --> 00:36:31,385

It's, it's

:

00:36:31,415 --> 00:36:33,095

Amanda: like a whole sheer back.

:

00:36:33,605 --> 00:36:34,085

Boys (2): Interesting.

:

00:36:34,085 --> 00:36:37,895

It quite literally looks like a

high waisted bathing suit bottom.

:

00:36:38,165 --> 00:36:39,995

Like it's, yes, it's very cheeky.

:

00:36:40,475 --> 00:36:40,625

Yes.

:

00:36:40,625 --> 00:36:41,915

Very tall waist.

:

00:36:42,635 --> 00:36:47,055

But every picture I've seen is only the

back and it literally attaches at the

:

00:36:47,055 --> 00:36:48,915

top of the hemline and it's just sheer.

:

00:36:49,420 --> 00:36:52,840

Like with little floral

designs down it and it's pink.

:

00:36:53,290 --> 00:36:53,890

Interesting.

:

00:36:55,240 --> 00:36:58,450

But the color of garden party seemed

like it was like pink or red this year.

:

00:36:58,510 --> 00:37:00,101

Like everyone I saw was rock and red.

:

00:37:00,106 --> 00:37:00,185

My

:

00:37:00,185 --> 00:37:00,880

Amanda: dress was pink.

:

00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:01,900

Pink with flowers.

:

00:37:01,990 --> 00:37:02,290

Boys (2): Yeah.

:

00:37:02,560 --> 00:37:06,220

I feel like every year it changes, but

like I saw every trends rock and pink

:

00:37:06,225 --> 00:37:07,750

and red, which I think is kind of cool.

:

00:37:07,810 --> 00:37:09,910

So she was on on brand with color.

:

00:37:09,940 --> 00:37:10,090

That's

:

00:37:10,090 --> 00:37:10,390

Amanda: true.

:

00:37:10,990 --> 00:37:12,790

Boys (2): Very uncouth with the,

:

00:37:14,860 --> 00:37:16,150

I just wanted to use uncouth.

:

00:37:16,185 --> 00:37:18,125

I'm fancy word.

:

00:37:18,925 --> 00:37:19,205

I know.

:

00:37:19,315 --> 00:37:19,605

Yeah.

:

00:37:20,110 --> 00:37:22,000

I'm the only one with,

without, without a degree here.

:

00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:24,730

So I can use like, to

feel, feel special up.

:

00:37:25,230 --> 00:37:26,520

And then we're gonna jump back Okay.

:

00:37:27,300 --> 00:37:29,385

In the, in your field Okay.

:

00:37:29,385 --> 00:37:30,360

Of everyday work.

:

00:37:30,480 --> 00:37:30,570

Mm-hmm.

:

00:37:31,110 --> 00:37:34,500

Do you do, do you administer

all this stuff or do you have

:

00:37:34,500 --> 00:37:35,670

people that do it for you?

:

00:37:35,700 --> 00:37:36,120

Like how does

:

00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:36,480

Amanda: that work?

:

00:37:37,335 --> 00:37:41,205

So like, do I do it to myself

or do I do it on other people?

:

00:37:41,210 --> 00:37:41,590

Boys (2): Other people.

:

00:37:41,745 --> 00:37:42,045

Amanda: Oh, other.

:

00:37:42,045 --> 00:37:42,315

Yes.

:

00:37:42,315 --> 00:37:44,085

So I, I do the procedures on other people.

:

00:37:44,090 --> 00:37:44,270

Okay.

:

00:37:44,270 --> 00:37:44,550

Mm-hmm.

:

00:37:44,805 --> 00:37:47,955

So they'll usually come in, you can

either come in and we can do the consult

:

00:37:47,955 --> 00:37:49,095

and the treatment all at the same time.

:

00:37:49,095 --> 00:37:49,185

Mm-hmm.

:

00:37:49,425 --> 00:37:50,745

Or you can just come in

and we can just talk.

:

00:37:50,955 --> 00:37:51,825

It's a free consult.

:

00:37:52,245 --> 00:37:52,425

Yeah.

:

00:37:52,425 --> 00:37:54,585

And I do the actual, like injections.

:

00:37:54,590 --> 00:37:54,840

Mm-hmm.

:

00:37:55,035 --> 00:37:56,775

We don't have like medical

assistants or anything like that.

:

00:37:56,865 --> 00:37:57,135

Mm-hmm.

:

00:37:57,375 --> 00:37:59,475

Our visor physician

isn't even like on site.

:

00:37:59,835 --> 00:38:01,485

So it's just PAs and RNs.

:

00:38:01,815 --> 00:38:02,025

Oh.

:

00:38:02,085 --> 00:38:02,175

Mm-hmm.

:

00:38:02,985 --> 00:38:03,495

Boys (2): Noise.

:

00:38:03,885 --> 00:38:04,905

Do I have to be like.

:

00:38:05,565 --> 00:38:08,715

I'm assuming you have to be

an RN to work there or above.

:

00:38:08,795 --> 00:38:10,745

Amanda: Well, and we have

aestheticians that do facials.

:

00:38:10,750 --> 00:38:10,990

Oh yes.

:

00:38:10,990 --> 00:38:11,230

Okay.

:

00:38:11,345 --> 00:38:11,615

Uhhuh.

:

00:38:11,615 --> 00:38:15,335

But into, in North Carolina, you need

to be at least a nurse to inject.

:

00:38:15,410 --> 00:38:15,785

Mm mm-hmm.

:

00:38:16,115 --> 00:38:16,895

Every state's different.

:

00:38:17,375 --> 00:38:17,765

Nice.

:

00:38:18,485 --> 00:38:19,265

Boys (2): I need to get a facial.

:

00:38:19,265 --> 00:38:20,675

That's why, that's why I went back.

:

00:38:20,675 --> 00:38:22,595

'cause I was like, I got

some dry spots on you.

:

00:38:22,595 --> 00:38:22,865

Definitely.

:

00:38:22,865 --> 00:38:23,405

Facials are

:

00:38:23,405 --> 00:38:26,345

Amanda: like the basics,

like skincare and facials.

:

00:38:27,240 --> 00:38:27,460

Boys (2): Yes.

:

00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:31,745

The problem is that me and Tyler have

beards and like Yeah, that's what I

:

00:38:31,745 --> 00:38:35,255

always want, gets in the way is like a

man facial because I used used to get 'em.

:

00:38:35,345 --> 00:38:35,555

Yeah.

:

00:38:35,555 --> 00:38:38,405

And they could get the bumps in my beard

and I'm like, oh, this feels great.

:

00:38:38,825 --> 00:38:40,235

And now mm-hmm.

:

00:38:40,475 --> 00:38:40,535

My

:

00:38:40,535 --> 00:38:41,105

Boys: beard's too long.

:

00:38:41,225 --> 00:38:41,825

Boys (2): It doesn't work.

:

00:38:42,005 --> 00:38:45,100

Boys: So for us as guys and all the

other guys that are listening mm-hmm.

:

00:38:45,560 --> 00:38:50,075

What's the first step into that

world that, that most men should do?

:

00:38:50,075 --> 00:38:51,875

Like when you look at it like

a guy, you're like, mm-hmm.

:

00:38:52,115 --> 00:38:53,795

If men just only did this.

:

00:38:54,095 --> 00:38:55,265

They'd be doing themselves a favor.

:

00:38:55,265 --> 00:38:55,295

I

:

00:38:55,295 --> 00:38:58,145

Amanda: mean, the basics for everyone

would be like medical grade, skincare.

:

00:38:58,150 --> 00:38:58,520

Mm-hmm.

:

00:38:58,605 --> 00:38:59,135

Good skincare.

:

00:38:59,135 --> 00:39:03,125

That's like 80% of it, 20% of it is

coming in and getting procedures done.

:

00:39:03,215 --> 00:39:03,245

Okay.

:

00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:03,480

Okay.

:

00:39:03,485 --> 00:39:05,675

So like retinol or tretinoin?

:

00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:06,280

Mm-hmm.

:

00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:06,361

Mm-hmm.

:

00:39:06,635 --> 00:39:10,205

And a vitamin C and like a good

sunscreen or like the three.

:

00:39:10,535 --> 00:39:10,655

Okay.

:

00:39:10,655 --> 00:39:11,255

Top three.

:

00:39:11,915 --> 00:39:15,905

And then you're looking at like

monthly facials, some talks.

:

00:39:16,025 --> 00:39:16,175

Mm-hmm.

:

00:39:16,775 --> 00:39:19,505

I mean, you guys don't really need

filler, but that'd be like the next

:

00:39:19,505 --> 00:39:20,495

step after that for like, right.

:

00:39:20,525 --> 00:39:23,765

But yeah, so like skincare, like

good skincare is like first step.

:

00:39:24,185 --> 00:39:24,475

Boys: Okay.

:

00:39:24,475 --> 00:39:24,795

Mm-hmm.

:

00:39:25,095 --> 00:39:28,280

And what you're talking about the

different TOXs and stuff, what, what do

:

00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:30,230

all of them do and why are they different?

:

00:39:30,770 --> 00:39:32,240

Amanda: So they're all very similar.

:

00:39:32,240 --> 00:39:33,620

They're all like bot toxin type A.

:

00:39:33,620 --> 00:39:33,980

Okay.

:

00:39:34,290 --> 00:39:36,180

They just have like

slightly different makeups.

:

00:39:36,590 --> 00:39:37,490

But they're all FDA approved.

:

00:39:37,490 --> 00:39:38,870

Botox have been around the longest.

:

00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:40,330

That's like the most studied drug ever.

:

00:39:40,330 --> 00:39:40,690

I think.

:

00:39:41,230 --> 00:39:43,210

They all have different, like onsets.

:

00:39:43,720 --> 00:39:47,710

They all, there's one out now that

should theoretically last a little

:

00:39:47,710 --> 00:39:50,200

bit longer, but they all kind of

last around three to four months.

:

00:39:50,320 --> 00:39:50,530

Okay.

:

00:39:50,780 --> 00:39:53,180

So it just depends, like, Botox

in my opinion is like very

:

00:39:53,180 --> 00:39:54,590

like potent kind of frozen.

:

00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:54,770

Mm-hmm.

:

00:39:55,100 --> 00:39:58,040

And then my favorite is Dysport,

which is a little more like natural

:

00:39:58,040 --> 00:39:59,510

looking like not as intense.

:

00:39:59,510 --> 00:39:59,600

Mm-hmm.

:

00:39:59,840 --> 00:40:01,075

So, yeah, that makes sense.

:

00:40:01,075 --> 00:40:03,740

They all kinda have like different

properties, but they do the same thing.

:

00:40:04,280 --> 00:40:04,340

Boys (2): Yeah.

:

00:40:04,340 --> 00:40:04,760

Interesting.

:

00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:06,200

At different string level.

:

00:40:07,100 --> 00:40:07,190

Oh yeah.

:

00:40:07,190 --> 00:40:07,670

I think it makes sense.

:

00:40:07,670 --> 00:40:11,450

So typically when you see someone

with Botox, they just look.

:

00:40:12,425 --> 00:40:13,325

No, look.

:

00:40:13,715 --> 00:40:14,585

Do I look like I have no,

:

00:40:14,585 --> 00:40:17,375

Amanda: look, I have Botox

or Dysport all over my face.

:

00:40:17,375 --> 00:40:17,495

Yeah,

:

00:40:17,495 --> 00:40:18,395

Boys (2): but dis what?

:

00:40:18,395 --> 00:40:21,935

That's my point is that Dysport

is more natural looking.

:

00:40:21,935 --> 00:40:22,325

Okay.

:

00:40:22,325 --> 00:40:23,795

And you still have some emotion.

:

00:40:23,825 --> 00:40:24,335

Yes.

:

00:40:24,425 --> 00:40:26,075

Whereas Botox people just,

:

00:40:26,855 --> 00:40:27,305

Amanda: yeah.

:

00:40:28,265 --> 00:40:28,625

Boys: High.

:

00:40:28,715 --> 00:40:30,785

Amanda: It also depends on

like the dosing of it too.

:

00:40:30,785 --> 00:40:31,640

I was gonna say, doesn't that

:

00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:32,495

Boys: like wear off though?

:

00:40:32,585 --> 00:40:33,330

Like mm-hmm.

:

00:40:33,410 --> 00:40:33,810

It lasts like

:

00:40:34,535 --> 00:40:36,485

Amanda: the scientifically

like 12 weeks, three months.

:

00:40:36,545 --> 00:40:36,725

Yeah.

:

00:40:36,725 --> 00:40:38,135

So you do every like three to four months.

:

00:40:38,165 --> 00:40:38,585

Mm-hmm.

:

00:40:39,245 --> 00:40:42,515

Boys (2): I just imagine the lady

from Scrubs when she got her hair

:

00:40:42,725 --> 00:40:45,395

done and he, she was just high.

:

00:40:45,845 --> 00:40:46,205

Amanda: Yep.

:

00:40:46,805 --> 00:40:47,975

No emotion isn't, isn't

:

00:40:47,975 --> 00:40:49,055

Boys: that like a lot of the myth too?

:

00:40:49,055 --> 00:40:51,395

Like that's typically like you

hear like the worst case scenarios.

:

00:40:51,395 --> 00:40:51,485

Mm-hmm.

:

00:40:51,485 --> 00:40:54,785

Or you're thinking about the some

whoever in Hollywood that like got

:

00:40:54,785 --> 00:40:55,715

botched or something and usually

:

00:40:55,715 --> 00:40:58,295

Amanda: when it's like you can tell

it's like they overdid filler, not

:

00:40:58,295 --> 00:41:00,335

necessarily Botox, but I mean you can.

:

00:41:00,695 --> 00:41:03,275

It still be too frozen

with Botox, but True.

:

00:41:03,275 --> 00:41:03,425

Yeah.

:

00:41:03,515 --> 00:41:05,135

It's usually too much

filler that you're seeing.

:

00:41:06,275 --> 00:41:06,575

Mm-hmm.

:

00:41:06,815 --> 00:41:08,765

Boys (2): I have seen a

lot of filler in the woods

:

00:41:11,015 --> 00:41:11,495

of Holly.

:

00:41:11,525 --> 00:41:11,855

Come on

:

00:41:11,855 --> 00:41:12,005

Boys: now.

:

00:41:12,455 --> 00:41:13,235

I know, I know.

:

00:41:13,925 --> 00:41:14,195

Sorry,

:

00:41:14,465 --> 00:41:16,025

Boys (2): I'm just, it's okay.

:

00:41:16,025 --> 00:41:20,255

On one today on a completely,

totally random question.

:

00:41:20,285 --> 00:41:20,525

Mm-hmm.

:

00:41:21,335 --> 00:41:22,355

Favorite nail color.

:

00:41:23,192 --> 00:41:25,172

Amanda: I usually just go

with like, I have three.

:

00:41:25,412 --> 00:41:25,472

Okay.

:

00:41:25,472 --> 00:41:29,542

Usually, like if PI like funny bunny

put in a neutral or oh my God, I can't

:

00:41:29,542 --> 00:41:30,532

even think of the name of it right now.

:

00:41:30,892 --> 00:41:32,122

Usually some sort of pink or white.

:

00:41:32,137 --> 00:41:32,427

Okay.

:

00:41:32,427 --> 00:41:32,747

Mm-hmm.

:

00:41:33,687 --> 00:41:35,572

Boys (2): If you guys

can see I pink right now.

:

00:41:35,577 --> 00:41:35,707

She's really cute.

:

00:41:35,707 --> 00:41:37,192

Now I pink with Chrome.

:

00:41:37,252 --> 00:41:37,582

Yes.

:

00:41:37,942 --> 00:41:38,362

Amanda: Yes.

:

00:41:39,112 --> 00:41:41,062

Boys (2): These are, it's been a while.

:

00:41:41,332 --> 00:41:41,722

Almond.

:

00:41:42,622 --> 00:41:43,972

Amanda: Yeah, it's like

an almond shaped good job.

:

00:41:45,232 --> 00:41:45,562

Mm-hmm.

:

00:41:46,042 --> 00:41:47,332

Boys: He used to kind

of work in the industry.

:

00:41:47,397 --> 00:41:47,687

Okay.

:

00:41:49,642 --> 00:41:50,452

Boys (2): Everyone's like, what?

:

00:41:50,812 --> 00:41:54,202

Well, I, I learned that before I

worked in the industry, but yes.

:

00:41:55,162 --> 00:41:55,492

Amanda: Nice.

:

00:41:56,212 --> 00:41:59,212

Yeah, I usually do some sort of neutral

and maybe throw some crime on it.

:

00:41:59,212 --> 00:42:00,052

Mm-hmm.

:

00:42:00,087 --> 00:42:00,742

Boys (2): It looks good.

:

00:42:00,862 --> 00:42:01,462

Amanda: Thank you.

:

00:42:02,272 --> 00:42:03,232

They were for garden party.

:

00:42:03,922 --> 00:42:06,532

Boys (2): See, like I said,

I'm here to hype you up.

:

00:42:06,922 --> 00:42:07,912

Amanda: I appreciate that

:

00:42:08,122 --> 00:42:08,962

Boys (2): all day, every day.

:

00:42:10,177 --> 00:42:11,797

That's what I need to get paid for.

:

00:42:12,067 --> 00:42:14,407

You get paid to like do reels at weddings?

:

00:42:14,412 --> 00:42:14,562

Mm-hmm.

:

00:42:14,642 --> 00:42:15,522

Someone just needs to sit night, man.

:

00:42:15,522 --> 00:42:16,237

And you're just there.

:

00:42:16,237 --> 00:42:16,867

Hype me up.

:

00:42:17,797 --> 00:42:18,577

Anybody.

:

00:42:18,967 --> 00:42:19,477

Oh my gosh.

:

00:42:19,477 --> 00:42:20,737

My makeup's horrible.

:

00:42:20,767 --> 00:42:21,127

Nope.

:

00:42:21,247 --> 00:42:23,257

Girl, it looks amazing.

:

00:42:23,257 --> 00:42:23,887

You'd be perfect for

:

00:42:23,887 --> 00:42:24,307

Amanda: that.

:

00:42:24,397 --> 00:42:24,607

Mm-hmm.

:

00:42:24,967 --> 00:42:25,057

Yeah.

:

00:42:26,017 --> 00:42:30,157

Boys: You have a package deal,

the straight gay guy charge extra.

:

00:42:30,157 --> 00:42:31,117

Yeah, you have a hype man.

:

00:42:31,207 --> 00:42:32,592

Oh my gosh.

:

00:42:33,307 --> 00:42:33,667

Boys (2): See?

:

00:42:33,667 --> 00:42:36,997

And and it all circles back to

me thinking of Swiss beets when

:

00:42:39,997 --> 00:42:40,297

that true.

:

00:42:42,097 --> 00:42:42,727

Where are you at?

:

00:42:43,357 --> 00:42:43,747

We good.

:

00:42:44,902 --> 00:42:46,192

Yeah, we don't want to

take up too much time.

:

00:42:46,372 --> 00:42:46,672

All right.

:

00:42:46,672 --> 00:42:48,022

Don't wanna take up your whole afternoon.

:

00:42:48,022 --> 00:42:48,112

This

:

00:42:48,112 --> 00:42:48,892

Amanda: was fun.

:

00:42:48,892 --> 00:42:49,312

Thank you.

:

00:42:49,372 --> 00:42:51,082

I'm like, should I start my own podcast?

:

00:42:51,502 --> 00:42:52,612

This is a good time.

:

00:42:52,762 --> 00:42:53,272

Boys (2): We think so.

:

00:42:54,112 --> 00:42:55,132

I mean, what's her call?

:

00:42:55,252 --> 00:42:55,972

Call her daddy.

:

00:42:56,002 --> 00:42:56,602

Call you daddy.

:

00:42:56,962 --> 00:42:57,742

Her podcast call.

:

00:42:57,747 --> 00:42:57,982

Call me.

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00:42:58,147 --> 00:43:00,187

I don't know the name

of that call her daddy.

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00:43:00,337 --> 00:43:00,667

Amanda: Yeah,

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00:43:00,672 --> 00:43:01,207

Boys (2): yeah, yeah.

:

00:43:01,207 --> 00:43:01,837

She just,

:

00:43:02,137 --> 00:43:03,097

Amanda: hers took off.

:

00:43:03,247 --> 00:43:03,337

Mm-hmm.

:

00:43:03,577 --> 00:43:06,457

Boys (2): And all she does is sit back

and talk comfy clothes and chit chats.

:

00:43:06,457 --> 00:43:06,607

I could

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00:43:06,607 --> 00:43:06,997

Amanda: talk,

:

00:43:08,077 --> 00:43:09,217

Boys (2): see I have a lot to say.

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00:43:09,757 --> 00:43:09,997

Yeah.

:

00:43:10,002 --> 00:43:10,402

Mm-hmm.

:

00:43:10,537 --> 00:43:11,197

Just bring me on.

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00:43:11,377 --> 00:43:11,527

Amanda: Mm-hmm.

:

00:43:12,127 --> 00:43:13,327

Boys (2): Every other time.

:

00:43:13,987 --> 00:43:16,417

So, 'cause you got a lot in the works.

:

00:43:16,422 --> 00:43:16,532

Mm-hmm.

:

00:43:17,227 --> 00:43:18,517

Got a lot of eggs in the basket.

:

00:43:18,817 --> 00:43:20,797

But what would success look like to you?

:

00:43:21,247 --> 00:43:22,927

Amanda: I'm really glad you gave

me this question ahead of time.

:

00:43:22,927 --> 00:43:24,277

'cause I had to like, reflect on it.

:

00:43:24,457 --> 00:43:24,757

Boys (2): Yes.

:

00:43:25,117 --> 00:43:27,157

Amanda: So, I mean, if you

had asked me that like.

:

00:43:27,682 --> 00:43:31,702

Early twenties, I've been like

becoming a pa, getting married, having

:

00:43:31,702 --> 00:43:34,282

kids, making money, all that stuff.

:

00:43:34,282 --> 00:43:37,652

But I don't know, just as we've

gone on through life like just like

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00:43:37,652 --> 00:43:40,112

being happy and like content with

where you are, but always still

:

00:43:40,112 --> 00:43:41,672

like striving to do other things.

:

00:43:42,002 --> 00:43:44,702

So like staying like, I mean, I've

been staying so busy and like trying

:

00:43:44,702 --> 00:43:48,092

to achieve goals with like the singles

events or starting content creation.

:

00:43:48,092 --> 00:43:48,512

So.

:

00:43:49,352 --> 00:43:51,542

Being like fulfilled with

where you are, but also still

:

00:43:51,542 --> 00:43:53,072

trying to achieve more goals.

:

00:43:53,077 --> 00:43:53,317

Yeah.

:

00:43:53,612 --> 00:43:53,792

Yeah.

:

00:43:53,852 --> 00:43:54,002

Mm-hmm.

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00:43:54,242 --> 00:43:54,542

Boys: Always.

:

00:43:54,542 --> 00:43:54,992

I like it.

:

00:43:55,592 --> 00:43:55,802

Thanks.

:

00:43:55,802 --> 00:43:58,322

So after looking forward to

look back a little bit mm-hmm.

:

00:43:58,562 --> 00:44:00,482

If you could tell your younger

self one thing, what would it be?

:

00:44:00,632 --> 00:44:01,802

Amanda: I'm also glad

I got you prepared for

:

00:44:01,802 --> 00:44:02,102

Boys: this.

:

00:44:02,972 --> 00:44:04,502

Amanda: I'm a pa, I prepare ahead of time.

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00:44:05,132 --> 00:44:09,602

So I would tell my younger self

to kind of appreciate like each

:

00:44:09,602 --> 00:44:10,862

phase of life as you're in it.

:

00:44:11,162 --> 00:44:11,252

Mm-hmm.

:

00:44:11,252 --> 00:44:13,982

Instead of trying to, or like

just always being worried.

:

00:44:14,377 --> 00:44:17,227

Trying to get to like the next

phase of your life because like in

:

00:44:17,227 --> 00:44:19,057

high school, I'm trying to get to

college and college trying to get

:

00:44:19,057 --> 00:44:20,167

into a good PA school and PA school.

:

00:44:20,167 --> 00:44:21,997

You're just trying to

get through PA school.

:

00:44:22,002 --> 00:44:22,252

Yeah, yeah.

:

00:44:22,417 --> 00:44:23,497

And then trying to get a good job.

:

00:44:23,497 --> 00:44:28,297

So I would try to just kinda like be

happy that you made it where you are.

:

00:44:28,537 --> 00:44:28,657

Yeah.

:

00:44:28,657 --> 00:44:29,497

And appreciate it.

:

00:44:30,217 --> 00:44:31,867

So that's what I would, that's I

:

00:44:31,867 --> 00:44:33,217

Boys: good one myself.

:

00:44:33,217 --> 00:44:36,007

I, that's probably one I should

have told myself too, so I like it.

:

00:44:37,142 --> 00:44:40,502

Boys (2): So now we've told

everybody forwards backwards.

:

00:44:40,532 --> 00:44:40,682

Mm-hmm.

:

00:44:41,012 --> 00:44:43,622

How can they stick with

you in current days?

:

00:44:43,832 --> 00:44:44,402

What's your handle?

:

00:44:44,402 --> 00:44:44,792

Mainly on

:

00:44:44,792 --> 00:44:45,452

Amanda: Instagram.

:

00:44:45,457 --> 00:44:45,527

Okay.

:

00:44:45,572 --> 00:44:50,042

I have too many Instagram accounts,

so my personal one is Amanda Swiss.

:

00:44:50,462 --> 00:44:55,382

My aesthetic account is I lm injector.

:

00:44:55,862 --> 00:45:03,602

My content creation account is made MAID

dot of social and then the singles event.

:

00:45:03,602 --> 00:45:05,972

Single and social ILM

is single and social.

:

00:45:05,972 --> 00:45:06,302

Do I lm?

:

00:45:06,332 --> 00:45:06,812

Okay.

:

00:45:08,207 --> 00:45:08,657

Boys (2): Very good.

:

00:45:08,657 --> 00:45:09,707

How do you keep up with all this?

:

00:45:09,707 --> 00:45:10,367

Amanda: It's rough.

:

00:45:10,667 --> 00:45:12,167

Boys (2): She has a little,

I'm always on my phone.

:

00:45:12,167 --> 00:45:14,447

She has a corner, a button in

the corner and just switches.

:

00:45:15,227 --> 00:45:15,437

Amanda: Yes.

:

00:45:15,527 --> 00:45:16,847

It's always a notification.

:

00:45:16,847 --> 00:45:18,737

I had a couple reels go like viral.

:

00:45:18,737 --> 00:45:21,737

They're like millions of views on

the wedding account, and I like, have

:

00:45:21,737 --> 00:45:22,757

a notification every two seconds.

:

00:45:22,757 --> 00:45:24,227

I'm like, I, I like throw my phone.

:

00:45:24,707 --> 00:45:24,767

Boys (2): Yeah.

:

00:45:24,767 --> 00:45:24,797

I

:

00:45:24,797 --> 00:45:25,157

Amanda: can't.

:

00:45:25,157 --> 00:45:26,477

I need to like mute them.

:

00:45:26,987 --> 00:45:27,527

Boys (2): So.

:

00:45:27,982 --> 00:45:30,947

And one of my last

completely random questions.

:

00:45:30,977 --> 00:45:31,067

Mm-hmm.

:

00:45:31,697 --> 00:45:33,047

Are your feeds different?

:

00:45:33,767 --> 00:45:34,517

Amanda: Yes, they are.

:

00:45:34,577 --> 00:45:34,607

Okay.

:

00:45:34,757 --> 00:45:35,237

Mm-hmm.

:

00:45:36,122 --> 00:45:36,752

Boys (2): I was curious.

:

00:45:36,782 --> 00:45:38,822

Amanda: Yeah, they, I mean, yeah,

they all are like the aesthetic one.

:

00:45:38,822 --> 00:45:41,072

I mainly follow, you know,

other aesthetic injectors.

:

00:45:41,077 --> 00:45:41,227

Mm-hmm.

:

00:45:42,092 --> 00:45:43,982

I mean, the singles one, we just,

you know, kind of followed people

:

00:45:43,982 --> 00:45:45,152

back that have followed us.

:

00:45:45,232 --> 00:45:49,072

The wedding one is a lot of, you

know, wedding content, right.

:

00:45:49,717 --> 00:45:53,737

My personal one is obviously people that

I follow, so yeah, they're all different.

:

00:45:53,947 --> 00:45:54,217

Boys (2): Nice.

:

00:45:54,222 --> 00:45:54,442

Amanda: Mm-hmm.

:

00:45:54,522 --> 00:45:54,682

Well,

:

00:45:54,697 --> 00:45:58,207

Boys (2): I was curious when, yeah, I

had three on my phone at one time and

:

00:45:58,207 --> 00:46:01,957

they had all slowly transitioned into

the, like almost the same feed Uhhuh.

:

00:46:02,377 --> 00:46:03,307

Amanda: That's interesting.

:

00:46:03,307 --> 00:46:03,367

Yeah.

:

00:46:03,667 --> 00:46:06,007

Boys (2): I mean it is mostly 'cause

I like watches and whiskey, so.

:

00:46:06,007 --> 00:46:06,097

Mm-hmm.

:

00:46:06,457 --> 00:46:06,997

Yes.

:

00:46:07,057 --> 00:46:08,137

They all shifted to that.

:

00:46:08,257 --> 00:46:08,617

Yes.

:

00:46:09,247 --> 00:46:11,017

Minus the podcast studio.

:

00:46:11,587 --> 00:46:11,857

Yeah.

:

00:46:12,037 --> 00:46:13,057

That was the only one that was different.

:

00:46:13,972 --> 00:46:14,242

Boys: Cool.

:

00:46:15,262 --> 00:46:15,502

Yeah.

:

00:46:15,562 --> 00:46:17,992

Well, we don't wanna take up too much

of your time today on your Sunday

:

00:46:17,992 --> 00:46:19,037

afternoon, but no, thank you for

:

00:46:19,037 --> 00:46:19,237

Boys (2): having me.

:

00:46:19,427 --> 00:46:19,997

This is fine.

:

00:46:19,997 --> 00:46:20,477

Thanks a great time.

:

00:46:21,007 --> 00:46:22,132

Thank you for showing up.

:

00:46:22,132 --> 00:46:22,792

Amanda: Of course.

:

00:46:23,242 --> 00:46:24,052

Boys (2): Sometimes I don't.

:

00:46:25,812 --> 00:46:27,432

But yeah, thank you guys for listening.

:

00:46:27,742 --> 00:46:29,302

This episode, it was a blast.

:

00:46:29,512 --> 00:46:33,142

Sorry it was all over the place,

but that's how we are, especially

:

00:46:33,142 --> 00:46:34,222

if we've been drinking at the bar.

:

00:46:34,642 --> 00:46:34,822

Yep.

:

00:46:34,952 --> 00:46:35,252

So yeah.

:

00:46:35,387 --> 00:46:37,097

We will catch you in the next one.

:

00:46:37,367 --> 00:46:41,807

Please like, comment, share, subscribe,

follow all her socials, follow all of ours

:

00:46:42,077 --> 00:46:44,237

if you can, and leave a five star review.

:

00:46:44,777 --> 00:46:45,227

Cheers.

:

00:46:45,617 --> 00:46:46,157

Cheers.

:

00:46:48,947 --> 00:46:49,397

Amanda: That was so fun.

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